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Are you always rushing?
Do you need to slow down? Do you need to replace action with connection? The answer could be YES if you find yourself saying things like this all the time - "Come on quick quick" "No we can't do this now" "No don't do it like this - do it like that." When children are rushed too much they feel exhausted and disconnected And throw tantrums Type SLOW and change your approach to parenting today. Share this And follow me for more #parenting #slowparenting #tantrums
Are you too busy To do activities with your child?
Then follow the tips in this reel And build your child’s brain effortlessly 1. Don't interrupt when they are playing. Then play will build their focus 2. Don't correct them when they play. Then play will build their problem solving skills 3. Don't teach them how to play. Then play will build their creativity. What should you do then? 1. Ensure that they are safe - be watchful and vigilant 2. Help them to self-regulate - smile whenever they look up at you to calm them down 3. Help when they ask - assist them when they feel overwhelmed by a challenge so that they don't give up
Are you always afraid?
Does your fear make you micromanage your child’s life? Are you an OVERPROTECTIVE PARENT? It is hardwork to be an OVERPROTECTIVE PARENT And you put in the hardwork with the belief that you are doing what is best for your child But is it really good to be OVERPROTECTIVE No While we are trying to show our love through overprotecting What is really happening is Our child is losing self-esteem And self-respect That is not what we want is it? Watch this video to know what over protection does to children ​
When babies start putting things into their mouth
Parents start panicking Did you panic too? Mouthing as this is called is very important for your baby's development and you should allow it 1. It reduces gagging on solids 2. It teaches chewing 3. It helps babies eat differently textured foods 4. It improves hand to eye coordination 5. It builds immunity When we don't know the reason our babies are doing what they do - we stop them from doing things that are helping them to develop. Don't let that happen to your baby. Type LEARN if you want to learn more such facts
Does your teen / preteen say I HATE YOU?
Does it break your heart when they do? No don't feel heartbroken Listen carefully and you will Hear what they are actually trying to say. 1. I want you to understand how I am feeling I am feeling MISERABLE 2. I want to feel EQUAL to you What you are doing is making me feel small and Powerless 3. I want to feel CALM I can only feel calm when I express my anger so I am hitting you with my words instead of my hands Teens say things they don’t mean And mean things they don’t say. Do you understand your teen? Do you want to understand your teen more? Type TEEN and I will send you the Google form to join the waitlist for my next workshop for the parents of teens.
Are you investing
TIME ENERGY EFFORT and MONEY On your 0 to 7 year old And ending up with nothing but TANTRUMS and MISBEHAVIOUR? The reason could be that you are BOMBING your child’s brain instead of BUILDING it. Before you do anything - you must know the neuroscience of how the brain grows. Doing what you think is good for the brain is not enough It could do more harm than good if it is not based in an understanding of neuroscience Do you want to learn how to build your 0 to 7 year old's brain by PARENTING with NEUROSCIENCE? Type SPW and I will send you a link to register for my SMART PARENTING WORKSHOP that I am conducting online today at 6 PM
Do you struggle to make your 0 to 7 year old child do ACTIVITIES?
Stop struggling Learn Parenting with Neuroscience And discover how to support your child to learn the SMART way and the NATURAL way. Type SPW if you want to attend my Smart Parenting Workshop on 18th August 2023 from 6 to 8 PM IST and learn Parenting with Neuroscience ​
Do you shout and hit when your child does not learn?
Do you know that is destroying your child’s brain? Stop doing that NOW Learn how to build neural highways in your child’s brain so that they learn faster Connect the whole brain so that it becomes more efficient ​
My son is very obedient. But he just can’t focus.
The mom of a teen complained during my teen parenting workshop the other day. Does this surprise you? Would you expect an obedient child to be able to focus? I wouldn’t. It is not surprising at all that this obedient child is not able to focus. Listening to others – is obedience. Listening to yourself – is focus. A child who is used to listening to others all the time – will find it difficult to listen to himself. That is why he cannot focus. It is a mistake to insist on obedience. When we insist on obedience, we push our children away from focus and into distractions. We need to stop telling children ‘What to do’ and start teaching them ‘How to think.’ And to do that we need to understand the way the brain works. I am conducting a workshop for the parents of teens and preteens today – called “Effective Parenting for Teens and Preteens†where I will talk about how the teen brain works. Do let me know if you would like to register. ​
Are you struggling with teen parenting?
Is your preteen driving you crazy?. Come attend my workshop for the parents of 8 to 18 year olds tomorrow Type TP to receive the registration link ​ |
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