The Parenting Place Bangalore
  • Home
  • Parenting
    • Parenting Workshops >
      • Corporate Parenting Workshops
      • School Workshops
      • Online Workshops >
        • Brain Building for 0 to 7 year olds
        • Effective Teen and Preteen parenting
    • Certified Parenting Coach Course
    • Consult
    • Parenting courses >
      • For parents of 0 -7 year olds
      • Teen Parenting Course
      • Teach your child how to read
    • Prenatal Classes >
      • Online Breastfeeding Classes
      • Online Newborn Care Classes
  • Performance
    • Neuroscience for organizations
    • Neuroscience for businesses
    • Neuroscience for Students
  • Pedagogy
  • Content
  • About
  • Contact
    • Payments
  • Testimonials
  • Resources
    • Books
    • Videos
    • Blog
    • Media Mentions
    • WhatParentsAsk
    • Downloads

Blog

My son is very obedient. But he just can’t focus.

26/8/2023

Comments

 
View this post on Instagram

A post shared by Dr Debmita Dutta - Parenting Expert (@debmitadutta)

My son is very obedient. But he just can’t focus.

The mom of a teen complained during my teen parenting workshop the other day.

Does this surprise you?

Would you expect an obedient child to be able to focus?

I wouldn’t.

It is not surprising at all that this obedient child is not able to focus.

Listening to others – is obedience.

Listening to yourself – is focus.

A child who is used to listening to others all the time – will find it difficult to listen to himself.

That is why he cannot focus.

It is a mistake to insist on obedience.

When we insist on obedience, we push our children away from focus and into distractions.

We need to stop telling children ‘What to do’ and start teaching them ‘How to think.’

And to do that we need to understand the way the brain works.

I am conducting a workshop for the parents of teens and preteens today – called “Effective Parenting for Teens and Preteens” where I will talk about how the teen brain works.

Do let me know if you would like to register.
​
Comments

    Authors

    All
    Dr Debmita Dutta


Key Links
Corporate Workshops
School Workshops
Prenatal Classes
Online Workshops
Online recorded courses
Connect
​+919611739400
​[email protected]

Social Media
Instagram
LinkedIn
YouTube
Privacy Policy
Privacy Policy

    Contact Us

Submit
© 2023 Dr. Debmita Dutta, The Parenting Place
  • Home
  • Parenting
    • Parenting Workshops >
      • Corporate Parenting Workshops
      • School Workshops
      • Online Workshops >
        • Brain Building for 0 to 7 year olds
        • Effective Teen and Preteen parenting
    • Certified Parenting Coach Course
    • Consult
    • Parenting courses >
      • For parents of 0 -7 year olds
      • Teen Parenting Course
      • Teach your child how to read
    • Prenatal Classes >
      • Online Breastfeeding Classes
      • Online Newborn Care Classes
  • Performance
    • Neuroscience for organizations
    • Neuroscience for businesses
    • Neuroscience for Students
  • Pedagogy
  • Content
  • About
  • Contact
    • Payments
  • Testimonials
  • Resources
    • Books
    • Videos
    • Blog
    • Media Mentions
    • WhatParentsAsk
    • Downloads