Do you get angry and shout and hit when your child makes a mistake?
Do you know that by doing this â you are missing a golden opportunity to build your childâs brain? Yes! Right after a mistake â the brain is eager to make new neural connections and learn and grow so that the mistake does not happen again. When your childâs brain is in this âeager to learnâ state, if you react to their mistake by shouting and hitting â your child will learn to shout and hit. If you use this âeager to learnâ state to teach your child what their mistake was and what they can do next time to avoid this mistake, your child will probably not make the mistake next time. Wrong parenting techniques get you the wrong results and often create problems that never existed before. Do you want to do the right things in parenting? Type YES and start Parenting with Neuroscience now. Share this on your story and say â@debmitadutta I promise to changeâ! If you want to do my neuroscience-based course for the parents of 0 -7-year-olds to make this change happen, DM PB and I will send you the link to register for the course. #parenting #parentingwithneuroscience #discipline #mistakes
Are you an EXHAUSTED and OVERWHELMED mom?
Then these are the 3 things you need to do 1. Let go of Perfection Your child does not need a perfect life They need a happy mom Do what makes you happy and no more 2. Ask for Help Asking for help is not a sign of weakness It is a sign of strength. You need a lot of courage to ask for help. 3. Prioritize Self care You cannot make anyone else feel good if you are not feeling good. Look after yourself and your child will be happier Stop trying to be a SUPER MOM Be a SMART MOM Type SMART MOM and share this. Let's normalize NOT being a super mom. Follow me for more #IWD #internationalwomensday #supermom
Why do I have to do everything for my child?
Why canât my child be INDEPENDENT? Why do I have to keep reminding my child to do everything? Why canât my child be RESPONSIBLE? Why does my child lose interest so easily? Why is my child not PERSISTENT? These are some of the most common questions I get from parents. So, is there a way to make children independent, responsible and persistent? Yes there is â If you want your child to be INDEPENDENT Stop giving too many INSTRUCTIONS. If you want your child to be RESPONSIBLE Stop giving REWARDS for doing things. If you want your child to be PERSISTENT Stop PRAISING your child constantly when they are doing something. Doing these things wires the brain wrongly. Stop blaming your child. Type AMAZING and change your parenting style now to make amazing things happen Share this so that those who are blaming your child for being independent, responsible and not persistent will understand what they need to do. Start PARENTING with NEUROSCIENCE and wire the brain correctly so that your child doesnât have these challenges. Follow me for more. #parenting #responsible #independent #persistent #discipline
When children sit and study they don't learn fast
The brain works best and learns the fattest when the body is fit. Sports and games are essential for brain building Here are 5 sports that will build your childâs brain 1. Swimming It helps your child to control their breath and Reduces stress. This helps your child to learn without panic even when things are difficult 2. Gymnastics This helps build core strength. This helps your child sit and listen for long periods 3. Table tennis and other racquet games They builds hand to eye coordination This helps in Writing and doing other precision related work 4. Basketball and other games that involve running They build stamina Stamina is important for good concentration 5. Chess This helps in developing strategic thinking Strategic thinking helps your child to Writing well in exams Type SPORTS and sign up for a sports class today. Share this to Inspire the parents of your childâs friends to do the same, so that your child wants to go to the class Follow me for more on parenting with neuroscience. #Parenting #sport
Do you want your child to eat more?
Then stop force feeding your child. Force feeding makes your child hate food. Instead focus on increasing your childâs appetite. Here are 5 ways to do that â 1. Make sure the food has a wonderful aroma when you cook. The aroma will make your child hungry for the food you are cooking. Use ghee, cook rice in an open vessel, make hot rotis, use spices like hing, jeera, ajwain etc. 2. Ensure that the food looks good Donât serve a colorless mushy mass of food The human brain is programmed to seek out variety Add different colored vegetables. Shape rotis and cutlets with cookie cutters 3. Serve crunchy foods. If you eat one bite of a crunchy food, it makes you want to eat the next bite. This is an easy way to increase your childâs appetite. Serve cucumbers, papad, etc. 4. Encourage self-feeding When we use our hands to eat, it makes us like the food more. Wash your childâs hands and allow them to eat with their hands 5. Eat with your child Watching you eat will make your child hungry If you chat and laugh while you eat â it will increase your childâs appetite further. Feeding children is one of the most difficult parts of parenting. But it doesnât have to be. Use these simple techniques to make feeding easier. Share this so that those who force you to force feed your baby bland and mushy food realize that it should not be done. Start parenting with neuroscience. DM and say âPBâ if you want to join my Parenting course for the parents of 0 to 7 year olds and make your parenting journey super easy. I will send you the payment link. Follow me for more #parenting #forcefeeding #fussyeating
Are you struggling with discipline?
Is getting your child to do what they should taking up all your time and energy? Then start PLAYING with your child Yes PLAY is the solution Many parents tell me that they don't have time to play with their child. But it is important to remember that If you don't spend time playing with your child you will end up spending that time punishing your child for not listening to you. Why ? Because when you play with your child your child you build a deep connection with your child. The connection ensures that your child 1.Listens 2. Understands 3. Can manage their Anger better when you say no. This is your sign to invest your time wisely. Type PLAY and start spending the time you have PLAYING instead of PUNISHING Share this now so that those who call your child stubborn and disobedient realize that they should stop punishing and start playing. Follow me for more #parenting #play #tantrums
Do you feel your child makes you angry?
No they don't These are the 3 reasons you get angry 1. You are tired and overworked When you are tired everything makes you angry. Plan more self care and rest 2. You are focused on Perfection Remember Perfection is impossible. What is perfect today will seem imperfect to you tomorrow. Running after Perfection will take you further and further away from happiness and satisfaction. And that will make you more angry. Start enjoying imperfection 3. You are afraid of being judged Don't worry about what others will say. They will say something no matter what you do. Don't try to please them and cause yourself stress. You can never make everyone happy. Do what makes you happy and you will not get angry so easily. Blaming your child for making you angry is destroying their confidence. Stop destroying your child to be perfect for someone else. Type STOP and stop now. Share this reel to announce to the world "I will not harm my child to please anyone: If you want to shift your focus from pleasing others to doing the best for your child, join my course. DM PB for details Follow me for more #parenting #Anger #Perfection #peoplepleaser
Are you feeling like a BAD PARENT?
1. Does your child throw TANTRUMS? 2. Does your child NOT LISTEN to you? 3. Is your child NOT LEARNING? NO. It is NOT YOUR FAULT!! All this is because of your mobile phone. How is your mobile phone affecting your child? 1. When you are on your phone your child feels DISCONNECTED with you And throws TANTRUMS to get your attention and feel connected. 2. The EMOTIONAL DISCONECT that your child feels with you because of your phone results in them not listening to you even when they can hear Because emotional connection is essential to convert HEARING into LISTENING 3. The lack of LISTENING is resulting in your child NOT LEARNING That mobile in your hand is DESTROYING YOU AND YOUR CHILD YOUR PHONE IS DESTROYING YOUR CHILD Type OK and put away your phone now!! Share this so that every adult who is around your child parent / grandparent / uncle / aunt / cousin - sees it and puts away their phone. DONâT ALLOW ANYONE TO DESTROY YOUR CHILD and then BLAME YOU and MAKE YOU FEEL GUILTY Start Parenting with Neuroscience It will make parenting super easy DM me and say PB If you want to subscribe to my Neuroscience based parenting course for the parents of 0 to 7 year olds and be Part of my PARENTING BLUEPRINT community where I handhold parents through their parenting challenges Follow me to know more. #parenting #mobilephone #tantrums #mothersguilt
âWhat to do if your child keeps falling sick?
Think about it logically and work on these 3 areas - 1. How to prevent infection ⢠Wash hands frequently. Do not use soaps that kill germs. ⢠Detect, prevent and treat allergies. ⢠Keep the house clean. But DO NOT use disinfectants. ⢠Breastfeed for as long as possible. ⢠Take age appropriate vaccines 2. How to build immunity to fight infection ⢠Focus on diet â No junk food. Eat a variety of freshly cooked food. ⢠Sleep â at least 10 hours in the night ⢠Stress â Stop scolding ⢠Sunlight â spend more time outdoors ⢠Exercise â at least 2 hours of physical play every day ⢠Water â drink lots of water 3. How to promote rapid recovery from infection ⢠Medicines -take them exactly the way your doctor has prescribed. ⢠Rest â prioritize it over everything else ⢠Right food â give easily digestible healthy food without force feeding ⢠Remove germs â focus on steam inhalation and other measures to wash out the germs There are no shortcuts when it comes to building immunity. Immunity is built by living life the right way. Type your question about immunity in the comments and I will answer it in future reels. Share this so that other parents do this and their children fall sick less often too. This will result in your child being less sick too.
I just want my child to have GOOD VALUES
Most parents who consult with me only want their children to be good, honest, kind and so on. When they find that their children have qualities like intelligence, athletic talents, artistic talents and so on but lack good values, they are very disappointed. Yes â it happens. Because it is much easier to build skills than to instill values. Values cannot be taught. They are imbibed by your child from you. And this happens when you are completely unaware that you are passing on values. Most people imagine that children start learning values when they start understanding language. But that is not true. Your baby starts imbibing values as soon as they are born. These are 3 mistakes that you must avoid while parenting if you want to pass on good values to your child 1. Threatening âIf you do this â I will do thatâ This teaches BULLYING 2. Bribing âIf you do this â I will give you thatâ This teaches MANIPULATION 3. Tricking âGo to school â teacher will give you a chocolateâ This teaches LYING Share this now with everyone who has advised you to do this kind of parenting and now blames you for your childâs bad behaviour Shortcuts donât work in parenting. Donât keep parenting the way you see others parenting. Start Parenting with Neuroscience. DM âPBâ if you want to subscribe to my neuroscience based course for the parents of 0 to 7 year olds called âThe Parenting Blueprint Course for the first seven yearsâ Follow me for more. #parenting #neuroscience #values |
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