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​Are you a busy parent?
Are you struggling to find time to do " activities " with your child? Is that making you feel guilty and worried because you are not doing anything for your child’s brain development? Then the Smart Parenting Workshop is for you. Discover the easy way to build your child’s brain using NEUROSCIENCE Yes!! You can do this even if you are working and don't have time. Type BB and I will send you the link to register for my workshop For the parents of 0 to 7 year olds Share this And follow me for more
Do you have to praise your child constantly when they are doing something?
Then your child could be addicted to praise Praise addiction is not good for children because when they constantly need praise - they can't work independently. What can you do to change this? 1. Give them time for free play Free play builds intrinsic motivation and ends dependence on external motivators like praise 2. Teach them new skills That will build their self-esteem and end their need for praise 3. Do not worry about what others think If you need others praise and approval , your child will need the same. Praise addiction is a terrible thing. It can affect your child's ability to perform in everything through life. Do these 3 things and end praise addiction today. Do you suffer from Mom guilt?
Here is why you should throw it away 1. Doing everything for your child is not love 2. If you don't take care of yourself you cannot take care of your child 3. Children don't need a perfect life. They need present parents. Save this post and read it everytime you feel guilty. If you are a busy mom who wants to do the best for your child in very little time - join the Smart Parenting Workshop. DM me for the registration link Share this And follow me for more. #Parenting #parentingworkshops#parentingexpert #momguilt#workingmom  “Our daughter gives up very easily.
It worries us. How will she succeed if she does not learn how to persist?” The very successful parents of an eight-year-old told me at a consultation the other day. Yes. It is worrying. The world is full of brilliant and talented people who could have achieved extraordinary things – if only they had not given up. And watching our children go the same way is terrifying. So why do children give up? They give up because they cannot endure the pain of failure. And failure is inevitable no matter what you do. In fact – while success is never guaranteed – whenever you try something – failure certainly is. So how can we help children to welcome failure? Children welcome failure – when FAILURE feels like FUN. Is it possible for failure to feel like fun? Yes, it is. Failure feels like fun when you are PLAYING and not WORKING. But how can work be turned into play. Work becomes play when you get on to your child’s team. A team multiplies the joys of small wins and divides the sorrows of failure – keeping your child motivated. But being a team player is not easy when the other team member is a teen. It is important to understand their “WHY?” And the why cannot be the same as our why – because their brain is still growing. 1. It does not have certain parts. 2. It runs on different neurotransmitters. 3. It is built by nature for the world of tomorrow. Today I am teaching an enthusiastic group of parents with children in the 8 – 18 years age group – how to apply neuroscience to be an effective parent to a teen (or preteen). Workshop fee INR 1,000/- Time 7 PM to 9 PM DM if you want to join us I can share the registration link.  Most of us make the mistake of thinking that parenting is about the child.
It is not. It is about the parent It is your journey Make every step count. Don't try to change your child Be the best version of yourself Be the version of yourself that your child needs.
Are you struggling to answer your child's uncomfortable questions like -
"How are babies born? " Then use these 2 books to make conversation easy Book 1 It's not the Stork by Robie Harris and Michael Emberly Book 2 Boys, girls and body science by Meg Hickling and Kim La Fave Both the books are written for children and are illustrated for them to understand. Never avoid your child's questions Just get these books Save this Post now Type SPW if you want to join my workshop for the parents of 0 to 7 year olds and learn more ways to be a smart parent.
What should you do when your child throws a tantrum?
Don't get fooled by what the child WANTS Ask "What does my child need? Remember A tantrum is a need masked by a want Fulfill the NEED - Otherwise the child will go on throwing tantrum after tantrum for one thing or another Watch this reel to understand how to manage a tantrum If you want to understand your child and learn how to manage them better - type SPW and I will send you the link to register for my Smart Parenting Workshop. Share this And follow me for more.
Do you use ANGER to improve your child’s performance?
Do you know what it does? 1. It makes your child make MORE MISTAKES Because they are preoccupied with your anger 2. It makes your child make the SAME MISTAKES again and again Because the fear of punishment does not allow them to learn from the mistake 3. It makes your child STOP doing things Because they are afraid of mistakes Is that what you wanted? Type NO ANGER and stop getting angry ​
Do you want to be the best Dad in the world?
Then give your child these three things - 1. Time When you spend time with your child it makes them feel important and raises their self-esteem 2. Love Don't withhold love thinking it will spoil your child. Love will motivate your child to do more 3. Forgiveness Forgive your child easily when they fail otherwise they will lose the courage to try again The old ways of parenting will not work in today's rapidly changing world Your child needs you to do this for them. Change today. Type DAD And change today DM me if you want to attend my Smart Parenting Workshop Share this And follow me for more
What do children want when they complain or cry or get upset?
Just like us - they need a calm person to listen to them and comfort them and listen to them Are you that person for your child? Watch this reel to look at things differently When we change the way we look at things - the things we look at change . Type CHANGE and change today. Discover a new parenting style at the SMART PARENTING WORKSHOP DM me for the registration link Share this And follow me for more #parenting #discipline #behavior#toddler #preschooler |