How to prepare your child for preschool ?
When your child goes to school- the first thing they will have to get used to - is less attention.
There will be one teacher who will divide her attention between all the 15 â 20 children in her class.
And so overnight - your child will have to get used to getting 1/20th of the attention that they were used to at home.
This can be quite upsetting for your child.
You can make this easy if you introduce your child to these 3 things.
1. Let your child get used to requests like âPlease waitâ â âJust give me a minute I will soon be thereâ before she goes to preschool.
2. Train your child to work at tasks even when she is not the center of all attention. If she is used to your constantly giving her attention while she is playing or drawing she will constantly ask for her teacherâs attention and disrupt the class..
3. Teach your child how to take turns . Explain to her that everyone must come first sometimes but everyone must also take a turn at coming last sometimes.
Being able to take turns will make her very popular with both her teachers and her classmates.
Preschool is your childâs first encounter with the outside world make an effort to make this a pleasant experience for your child.
Do you give your child a chocolate or some other junk food when they throw a tantrum?
Do you know that by doing this you are just creating another tantrum?
Watch this reel to know how that happens.
So many times in parenting - we do things that we think are going solve a problem.
But we just end up creating another problem
These parenting mistakes make parenting much more difficult than it is.
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Some mistakes that you are making are damaging your childâs brain.
I look forward to meeting you at the workshop and showing you what those mistakes are and how you can stop making them.
âDo you want your child to learn fast?
Do you SHOUT to make your child learn faster?
Shouting makes your child SLOW at learning
This is what you need to do -
1. Turn HEARING into LISTENING
So that your child UNDERSTANDS
2. Create MEMORIES
So that your child LEARNS
3. Store the memories for a LONG TIME
So that your child REMEMBERS
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âExercise is very important during pregnancy
But keeping these three precautions in mind while exercising is even more important
1. Do not get out of breath
You should be able to talk comfortably
2. Do not overheat your body
You should not be perspiring
3. Exercise to feel good
Do not exercise to the point of exhaustion
It is so important to be well informed during pregnancy
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Do you wonder how you can correct your teen without damaging their self-esteem?
Here are 3 tips -
1. Never criticize your teenager in front of others
Teens care a lot about what others are thinking about them.
When you criticize your teenager in front of someone else â your teenager will not listen and absorb what you are saying.
Her/his whole focus will be on somehow saving face and looking good in front of the other person.
You will find your teenager getting angry or answering back or doing something foolish to look smart
2. Donât compare
When you compare your teenager to someone else â it becomes a personal attack.
Teenagers are constantly struggling with their identity and trying to prove to themselves that they are good enough.
When you compare â you are putting your teenagerâs worst fear into words. When you compare your teenager begins to believe that she/he is not good enough.
And this is what really damages self-esteem.
3. Be specific
Remember that you are saying this because you want your teen to improve.
Do not criticize unnecessarily. And donât criticize everything about your teenager.
If you want your teenager to get better marks â only talk about how to improve the marks.
Do not deviate from the topic by bringing in other things like
âYou also keep your room so untidyâ and âYou never wish my friends when you meet themâ
Teen parenting is not easy
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Do you know how powerful you are as a parent?
Many times I find that parents are unaware of their power.
But you have tremendous power.
With every word and action
You create new neural connections in your childâs brain
Which connection is made - where it is made - and what kind of connection it is - depends on what you say and do.
So with great power comes great responsibility.
It is your responsibility to say and do the right thing so that you help your child build the best possible brain.
Prepare yourself for this responsibility by learning about brain building
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The secret to success is HARDWORK
But how can you make your child HARDWORKING?
Here are 3 tips
1. Inspire them
Take up a challenging task and work hard at it every day in front of them.
Eg - build something / play a musical instrument
2. Teach DISCIPLINE
Follow a family routine that makes place for both work and play.
If your child only sees you work all day - they will hate hard work
3. Teach PLANNING
Teach your child how to break up a big task into small doable bits so that they don't get exhausted by doing all the hardwork in one day.
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Do you keep Nagging your teenager to do things that they need to do?
And do you also nag your teen to stop doing things they should not do?
And are you getting more and more angry and frustrated every day because your teen is not doing what you are asking even though you are giving them so many reminders?
The you need to watch this reel.
Nagging does NOT work
When you nag and give your teen repeated reminders they can see that you have taken responsibility for their work - so they become IRRESPONSIBLE
And on top of that your repeated reminders irritate them. So they stop listening to you and become REBELLIOUS.
Is that what you want?
No. You want the exact opposite!!
Type NO And stop nagging today
Teen parenting is not easy.
I am planning a Masterclass on teen parenting soon.
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