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Do you SHOUT at your child instead of HITTING?
Do you know SHOUTING IS AS BAD AS HITTING? Yes. Shouting is emotional abuse. Think of it like this. Would you be okay with your spouse (husband / wife) SHOUTING at you instead of HITTING? Would the shouting not hurt? Would the shouting not destroy your confidence? Would the shouting not affect your relationship? Would the shouting not affect your ability to think logically? Of course it would. You would never like to live with someone who shouts at you. Even if they never hit you. Because of the impact it has on your BRAIN even though they have not harmed your BODY. But your child has no choice. Your child has to live with you. Even though every time you shout – IT DAMAGES THEIR BRAIN. So have you tried to stop shouting? I am sure you have. But do you still end up shouting? If the answer is yes – then this is what you need to know. You shout because you want your child to do something that is good for them. And you get angry because they are not doing that. But do you know – in the first 7 years of life your child is programmed by nature to do only those things that build their brain? And they throw tantrums because you are not allowing them to build their brain. 1. They never sit down and read – because running around builds their brain. 2. They touch everything and make a mess – because they learn through exploration using all their sense organs. 3. They refuse to eat – because they need to play more than eat to grow their brain. When you stop them from doing these things that they are naturally programmed to do to build their brain, they start asking for the TV and the mobile. But what should you do then? You can’t stop teaching them! You can’t allow them to do whatever they like! You can’t allow them to stay hungry! And that is why you shout. Can you teach them, and feed them in a way that grows their brain? Yes – it is possible! Start PARENTING with NEUROSCIENCE!! If you want to learn how to do that – you can subscribe to my PARENTING BLUEPRINT COURSE for the parents of 0- to 7-year-olds. Send me a message saying “PB†and I will send you the details. #parenting #toddlerparenting
Does your child want to repeat the same things over and over again?
The same book The same story The same toy The same game Do you get worried when this happens? Do you get angry when this happens? Don’t worry. Don’t get angry. Repetition builds the brain. Your child knows this and that is why your child insists on repeating things. Here are some things you should know about repetition – 1. Repetition is proof that your child can FOCUS and CONCENTRATE without getting bored. 2. Repetition is proof that your child is developing a longer ATTENTION SPAN 3. Repetition is proof that your child is trying to MASTER SKILLS 4. Repetition is proof that your child is trying to build a CONCEPT. Repetition builds the brain by strengthening neural pathways. Do not rush your child from experience to experience and activity to activity just because others are doing it. Type REPEAT and allow repetition so that your child can build an amazing brain. Share this now and start PARENTING WITH NEUROSCIENCE. If you want to learn more about Parenting with Neuroscience And do the right things for your child’s brain - subscribe to my course for the parents of 0- to 7-year-olds. Send me a message saying PB and I will share joining details. Follow me for more. #parenting #focus #attention #repetition
Are you trying to build your child’s brain?
Then here is the 3B formula you should know – The first B – BRAINS are BUILT not BORN. Don’t do tests to find out about your child’s talents, interests, and personality with the goal of sending them to the right classes and turn them into prodigies. Play with them yourself for whole brain development. That will result in them becoming the best versions of themselves. The second B - BEING is more important than BUYING. No matter what you BUY your child – a flashcard, a toy, or an app, they will not build your child’s brain unless you work on BEING the parent your child needs. Spend time understanding your child through the lens of NEUROSCIENCE so that you know what their growing brain needs and give them that. The third B – BORING is better than BUSY. Rushing your child from class to class, activity to activity and playdate to playdate and living a BUSY life can do more harm than good if it leads to tantrums and anger. A BORING life that allows you to BREATHE and BOND is much better for your child’s brain. Give your child lots of time for free play. Give yourself enough time to rest. Follow these 3B s and parenting will become easy, effortless, and enjoyable. Type RELAX and start using the 3B formula today. Share this to decrease the PARENTING PEER PRESSURE that is making life so difficult for parents today. If you want to embrace this way of parenting – DM me. Type “PB†in the message to know more about my PARENTING with NEUROSCIENCE course that makes brain building easy. Follow me for more. #parenting #neuroscience #brainbuilding
Are you worried about your child’s safety?
Are you wondering how you can keep them safe when you are not around? Here is the answer Teach them how and when to say these 3 things- 1. "Please Stop " When they don’t like something someone is doing to them 2. "Please help" When they are in trouble 3. "No" When they don’t want to do something We are always telling children to listen and obey. We must teach them to disobey as well. If we don't teach them that They will not be safe. Have you done that? Type OK and do it NOW Share this so that others Don judge you for giving your child a VOICE And asking them to speak up. Follow me for more #parenting #abuse #childsafety
Do you feel guilty when your child is bored?
Don’t feel guilty. Boredom is essential for success. Do you know why? To be successful at anything – your child needs to practice. Yes!! Practice makes perfect. But practice is boring. If you entertain your child too much – your child will not be able to endure the boredom of practice. And that will become a roadblock to success. Don’t rush to entertain your child when they are bored. 1. Give them a hug and a kiss. They need connection. 2. Give them some instruction free time to laze and dream. 3. Give them some place to run, jump and shout and release their energy. Also – set a good example. Don’t pick up your phone to entertain yourself as soon as you are bored. Type FREE and be guilt free when your child is bored. Share this with those who may judge you for not keeping your child busy. Follow me for more. #parenting #boredom #entertainment
Do you get angry and shout and hit when your child makes a mistake?
Do you know that by doing this – you are missing a golden opportunity to build your child’s brain? Yes! Right after a mistake – the brain is eager to make new neural connections and learn and grow so that the mistake does not happen again. When your child’s brain is in this “eager to learn†state, if you react to their mistake by shouting and hitting – your child will learn to shout and hit. If you use this “eager to learn†state to teach your child what their mistake was and what they can do next time to avoid this mistake, your child will probably not make the mistake next time. Wrong parenting techniques get you the wrong results and often create problems that never existed before. Do you want to do the right things in parenting? Type YES and start Parenting with Neuroscience now. Share this on your story and say “@debmitadutta I promise to changeâ€! If you want to do my neuroscience-based course for the parents of 0 -7-year-olds to make this change happen, DM PB and I will send you the link to register for the course. #parenting #parentingwithneuroscience #discipline #mistakes
Are you an EXHAUSTED and OVERWHELMED mom?
Then these are the 3 things you need to do 1. Let go of Perfection Your child does not need a perfect life They need a happy mom Do what makes you happy and no more 2. Ask for Help Asking for help is not a sign of weakness It is a sign of strength. You need a lot of courage to ask for help. 3. Prioritize Self care You cannot make anyone else feel good if you are not feeling good. Look after yourself and your child will be happier Stop trying to be a SUPER MOM Be a SMART MOM Type SMART MOM and share this. Let's normalize NOT being a super mom. Follow me for more #IWD #internationalwomensday #supermom
Why do I have to do everything for my child?
Why can’t my child be INDEPENDENT? Why do I have to keep reminding my child to do everything? Why can’t my child be RESPONSIBLE? Why does my child lose interest so easily? Why is my child not PERSISTENT? These are some of the most common questions I get from parents. So, is there a way to make children independent, responsible and persistent? Yes there is – If you want your child to be INDEPENDENT Stop giving too many INSTRUCTIONS. If you want your child to be RESPONSIBLE Stop giving REWARDS for doing things. If you want your child to be PERSISTENT Stop PRAISING your child constantly when they are doing something. Doing these things wires the brain wrongly. Stop blaming your child. Type AMAZING and change your parenting style now to make amazing things happen Share this so that those who are blaming your child for being independent, responsible and not persistent will understand what they need to do. Start PARENTING with NEUROSCIENCE and wire the brain correctly so that your child doesn’t have these challenges. Follow me for more. #parenting #responsible #independent #persistent #discipline
When children sit and study they don't learn fast
The brain works best and learns the fattest when the body is fit. Sports and games are essential for brain building Here are 5 sports that will build your child’s brain 1. Swimming It helps your child to control their breath and Reduces stress. This helps your child to learn without panic even when things are difficult 2. Gymnastics This helps build core strength. This helps your child sit and listen for long periods 3. Table tennis and other racquet games They builds hand to eye coordination This helps in Writing and doing other precision related work 4. Basketball and other games that involve running They build stamina Stamina is important for good concentration 5. Chess This helps in developing strategic thinking Strategic thinking helps your child to Writing well in exams Type SPORTS and sign up for a sports class today. Share this to Inspire the parents of your child’s friends to do the same, so that your child wants to go to the class Follow me for more on parenting with neuroscience. #Parenting #sport
Do you want your child to eat more?
Then stop force feeding your child. Force feeding makes your child hate food. Instead focus on increasing your child’s appetite. Here are 5 ways to do that – 1. Make sure the food has a wonderful aroma when you cook. The aroma will make your child hungry for the food you are cooking. Use ghee, cook rice in an open vessel, make hot rotis, use spices like hing, jeera, ajwain etc. 2. Ensure that the food looks good Don’t serve a colorless mushy mass of food The human brain is programmed to seek out variety Add different colored vegetables. Shape rotis and cutlets with cookie cutters 3. Serve crunchy foods. If you eat one bite of a crunchy food, it makes you want to eat the next bite. This is an easy way to increase your child’s appetite. Serve cucumbers, papad, etc. 4. Encourage self-feeding When we use our hands to eat, it makes us like the food more. Wash your child’s hands and allow them to eat with their hands 5. Eat with your child Watching you eat will make your child hungry If you chat and laugh while you eat – it will increase your child’s appetite further. Feeding children is one of the most difficult parts of parenting. But it doesn’t have to be. Use these simple techniques to make feeding easier. Share this so that those who force you to force feed your baby bland and mushy food realize that it should not be done. Start parenting with neuroscience. DM and say “PB†if you want to join my Parenting course for the parents of 0 to 7 year olds and make your parenting journey super easy. I will send you the payment link. Follow me for more #parenting #forcefeeding #fussyeating |
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