Do you SHOUT at your child instead of HITTING?

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Do you SHOUT at your child instead of HITTING?

Do you know SHOUTING IS AS BAD AS HITTING?

Yes.

Shouting is emotional abuse.

Think of it like this.
Would you be okay with your spouse (husband / wife) SHOUTING at you instead of HITTING?
Would the shouting not hurt?
Would the shouting not destroy your confidence?
Would the shouting not affect your relationship?
Would the shouting not affect your ability to think logically?

Of course it would.

You would never like to live with someone who shouts at you. Even if they never hit you.
Because of the impact it has on your BRAIN even though they have not harmed your BODY.

But your child has no choice. Your child has to live with you.
Even though every time you shout – IT DAMAGES THEIR BRAIN.

So have you tried to stop shouting?

I am sure you have.
But do you still end up shouting?
If the answer is yes – then this is what you need to know.
You shout because you want your child to do something that is good for them.
And you get angry because they are not doing that.
But do you know – in the first 7 years of life your child is programmed by nature to do only those things that build their brain?

And they throw tantrums because you are not allowing them to build their brain.

1. They never sit down and read – because running around builds their brain.
2. They touch everything and make a mess – because they learn through exploration using all their sense organs.
3. They refuse to eat – because they need to play more than eat to grow their brain.

When you stop them from doing these things that they are naturally programmed to do to build their brain, they start asking for the TV and the mobile.

But what should you do then?

You can’t stop teaching them!
You can’t allow them to do whatever they like!
You can’t allow them to stay hungry!

And that is why you shout.

Can you teach them, and feed them in a way that grows their brain?

Yes – it is possible!

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