Is your child starting school this year?
Then donât make this BIG mistake Do not burden your child with the expectation of SUCCESS Teach your child HOW TO DEAL WITH FAILURE When a child starts learning something To succeed - they will have to overcome many failures. Build RESILIENCE to FAILURE So that your child can try again and again until they SUCCEED. This is what you need to do - 1. Stop Overprotecting Donât speak for your child. Let them speak up for themselves Let them discover their STRENGTH 2. Donât jump in to help When your child is struggling with something â donât jump in and fix it for them. Let them discover their INNOVATIVE BRAIN 3. Donât invalidate their feelings When your child falls â donât say â âNo you didnât get hurt.â Teach them how to put their feelings into words and what to do after that. Let them learn how to MANAGE ALONE 4. Donât praise unnecessarily If your child is doing something â donât stand over them and say âgood goodâ at every step. Praise only when they feel that they have finished something and ask for your opinion. Let them learn DELAYED GRATIFICATION 5. Donât fill them with fear When your child is doing something risky â donât frighten them. Show them how to do what they want to do safely. Let them find their COURAGE Starting school is the first major challenge that a child must face and overcome on their own. Make sure your child is prepared for it by building their RESILIENCE Type âI canâ and start doing this today
Is your child starting school this year?
Then donât make this BIG mistake Do not burden your child with the expectation of SUCCESS Teach your child HOW TO DEAL WITH FAILURE When a child starts learning something To succeed - they will have to overcome many failures. Build RESILIENCE to FAILURE So that your child can try again and again until they SUCCEED. This is what you need to do - 1. Stop Overprotecting Donât speak for your child. Let them speak up for themselves Let them discover their STRENGTH 2. Donât jump in to help When your child is struggling with something â donât jump in and fix it for them. Let them discover their INNOVATIVE BRAIN 3. Donât invalidate their feelings When your child falls â donât say â âNo you didnât get hurt.â Teach them how to put their feelings into words and what to do after that. Let them learn how to MANAGE ALONE 4. Donât praise unnecessarily If your child is doing something â donât stand over them and say âgood goodâ at every step. Praise only when they feel that they have finished something and ask for your opinion. Let them learn DELAYED GRATIFICATION 5. Donât fill them with fear When your child is doing something risky â donât frighten them. Show them how to do what they want to do safely. Let them find their COURAGE Starting school is the first major challenge that a child must face and overcome on their own. Make sure your child is prepared for it by building their RESILIENCE Type âI canâ and start doing this today. Share this and follow me for more.
Does your childâs homework make you cry ?
Does the homework go on for hours and hours? Then this reel.is for you. Use these 5 tips to get homework done fast Don't hate homework Do it the right way so that it results in learning And reduces the struggle to learn before the exams. Type HW and resolve to change your approach to homework now. Share this And follow me for more
Do you believe in the magic of juices?
Do you give your child juice thinking it is good for them? Stop now. 1. When you turn a fruit into juice â you remove all the fibre from it. What is left is a sugar and water. Sugar and water fill your childâs stomach and make them reject nutritious meals. Juices make your child WEAK 2. The blood sugar high caused by the juice soon causes a compensatory blood sugar crash which leads to tantrums. Juices cause TANTRUMS 3. The water that goes in as juice does not help the body because it is quickly lost in urine and may in fact cause dehydration. Juices cause DEHYDRATION 4. The vitamins and minerals that are present in the fruit are not absorbed well when you drink the juice because juice moves so fast through the gut that there is not time for the gut to absorb the nutrients. Juices have NO NUTRITIONAL BENEFIT GIVE YOUR CHILD FRUITS NOT JUICES Type NO and start saying no to juices now. Share this with all your friends and relatives so that they stop giving children juices. Stop making these expensive mistakes while parenting even as you try to do the best for your child. DM me if you want to subscribe to my 5-module course with lifetime access and learn what you really need to do for your child.
Going back to school after a vacation is always difficult for children.
If you are struggling with your childâs reluctance to go back to school - SAVE this post now 1. Work on your own anxiety It is natural for you as the parent to be a little anxious about school reopening. You may be worried about early wake up times, homework in the evenings and arranging uniforms and snack boxes. Anxiety is infectious and your child is sure to absorb it from you. What to do â Plan for the first week and start preparing by arranging and organizing things. This will reduce anxiety and increase excitement. 2. Spend time talking to your child Your child may be worried about many things. They may not have understood a chapter or completed some homework. When you spend time talking to them they will have the chance to tell you this. What to do â Bring out the text books and note books and go through them while chatting about what happens in school. 3. Start sleeping early Stop going out in the evenings and sleep early so that it becomes easier to get up early for school What to do â Start a bedtime routine which could be a quick game followed by reading a book before going to sleep 4. Eat home cooked nourishing food The junk food eaten during vacations makes children cranky and anxious. What to do â Look up fun recipes with healthy ingredients and try them out with your child. 5. Make a schedule for school weeks Children are often worried that once school begins they will not be able to do any of the activities they love â like playing downstairs or making craft projects. What to do - Make a list of the vacation activities that your child may not be able to do once school begins. Take a planner and schedule time for these activities every weekend. Children must look forward to school. Only then will they learn well. Type SCHOOL and start doing this now. Save this post to refer to later. And share it so that all your childâs friends get excited, and everyone looks forward to the first day of school. Follow me for more
Are you shocked when your child behaves badly?
Does it embarrass you when your child is RUDE UNKIND And UNCARING Don't run around looking for books and classes to change them and build their social skills Just do this - 1. If you want your child to be Polite Stop ordering them around Start requesting 2. If you want your child to be kind Be kind to them when they make mistakes Don't punish them 3. If you want your child to listen to others and follow rules and requests Put away your phone and listen to them when they talk to you. Social skills Are learnt from our social environment Be the version of yourself that you want your child to be. Type BEST and be the best version of yourself at HOME
âI didnât dance last night. But I started dancing this morning when I looked at my Instagram page.
And saw the follower count at 100 K. What an amazing new year gift!! To say that I am thrilled would be an understatement. I donât like the word followers too much. I like to think of the amazing parents who are there as a community of parents who want to approach parenting with empathy and compassion. And I am so grateful for this opportunity to keep them on their chosen path. The only reward that parents seek from all the hard work that they put into parenting â is a good relationship with their child. But the challenge to building that relationship are the expectations that inevitably become part of the story â because of the amount of hard work that goes into parenting. We expect results â not just from our children â but from ourselves. And when we donât get those results, several relationships suffer. Our relationship with our child is the biggest casualty. But our relationship with ourselves suffers too. Is there a way to salvage these relationships? Yes, there is. Build empathy. Expectation without Empathy destroys relationships. But how can we build empathy? Simply by understanding the challenges our child faces as they navigate the world with their growing brain and body. And it is so easy to do that when we apply neuroscience and physiology to parenting. Every child is amazing. Every child wants to excel and become the best version of themselves. Every parent knows that they have an amazing child. Every parent wants to ensure that their child lives up to their true potential. Then should the lack of knowledge of neuroscience and physiology be allowed to come in the way of this common goal? No, it should not. And that is why I do what I do. I help parents to apply neuroscience to parenting and make parenting easy enjoyable and effective. I am thrilled and grateful that a 100 K parents have chosen to walk this path with me. If you are on Instagram â I invite you to join me. I am on @debmitadutta. Happy New Year! May this be the best year ever. |
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