Is your child starting school this year?
Then donât make this BIG mistake
Do not burden your child with the expectation of SUCCESS
Teach your child HOW TO DEAL WITH FAILURE
When a child starts learning something
To succeed - they will have to overcome many failures.
Build RESILIENCE to FAILURE
So that your child can try again and again until they SUCCEED.
This is what you need to do -
1. Stop Overprotecting
Donât speak for your child.
Let them speak up for themselves
Let them discover their STRENGTH
2. Donât jump in to help
When your child is struggling with something â donât jump in and fix it for them.
Let them discover their INNOVATIVE BRAIN
3. Donât invalidate their feelings
When your child falls â donât say â âNo you didnât get hurt.â Teach them how to put their feelings into words and what to do after that.
Let them learn how to MANAGE ALONE
4. Donât praise unnecessarily
If your child is doing something â donât stand over them and say âgood goodâ at every step. Praise only when they feel that they have finished something and ask for your opinion.
Let them learn DELAYED GRATIFICATION
5. Donât fill them with fear
When your child is doing something risky â donât frighten them. Show them how to do what they want to do safely.
Let them find their COURAGE
Starting school is the first major challenge that a child must face and overcome on their own.
Make sure your child is prepared for it by building their RESILIENCE
Type âI canâ and start doing this today.
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