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I just want my child to have GOOD VALUES
Most parents who consult with me only want their children to be good, honest, kind and so on. When they find that their children have qualities like intelligence, athletic talents, artistic talents and so on but lack good values, they are very disappointed. Yes – it happens. Because it is much easier to build skills than to instill values. Values cannot be taught. They are imbibed by your child from you. And this happens when you are completely unaware that you are passing on values. Most people imagine that children start learning values when they start understanding language. But that is not true. Your baby starts imbibing values as soon as they are born. These are 3 mistakes that you must avoid while parenting if you want to pass on good values to your child 1. Threatening “If you do this – I will do that†This teaches BULLYING 2. Bribing “If you do this – I will give you that†This teaches MANIPULATION 3. Tricking “Go to school – teacher will give you a chocolate†This teaches LYING Share this now with everyone who has advised you to do this kind of parenting and now blames you for your child’s bad behaviour Shortcuts don’t work in parenting. Don’t keep parenting the way you see others parenting. Start Parenting with Neuroscience. DM “PB†if you want to subscribe to my neuroscience based course for the parents of 0 to 7 year olds called “The Parenting Blueprint Course for the first seven years†Follow me for more. #parenting #neuroscience #values |
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