​Does your LAZY child have the POTENTIAL to be a WINNER if they just put in the work?

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​Does your LAZY child have the POTENTIAL to be a WINNER if they just put in the work?

But are you struggling to make them do the work that they need to do?

Then you need to start PARENTING with NEUROSCIENCE

Use the 5 W formula to bring out the WINNER in your LAZY child.

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1.
Explain WHY

Your child is not lazy.
Your child finds the work meaningless.
No, you cannot motivate your child with “You will get full marks”.
Show them where they will be able to use the skill they are learning in real life to motivate them 

2.
Show them WHERE to start

Your child is not lazy.
Your child is overwhelmed with the quantity of work does not know where to start
Make a plan with them and show them how to break down the task into small parts.
That will motivate them.

3.
Suggest WHAT they can do to improve

Your child is not lazy. When your child is stuck and doesn’t know what to do to improve they give up.
Give your child specific suggestions
Don’t say “study more”. Show them what to study and how

4.
Support them WHEN they fail

Your child is not lazy
Your child is afraid of failing
Don’t blame your child for being lazy when they fail.
Help your child to use each failure as a steppingstone to success

5.
WATCH OUT before you label your child

Your child is not lazy
Your child believes that they are lazy because you keep saying that they are lazy
Stop labelling your child
Appreciate your child for being easy going and relaxed
This will help them to overcome the stress of performance and do well.

Type WINNER and share this now.

Let the people who call your child lazy know that your child is destined to be a winner

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