Does your child say – “You don’t love me”?

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Does your child say – “You don’t love me”?

Does it break your heart when you hear that?

I am sure it does.

Because you love your child more than anything else in this world.

Then why does your child feel unloved?

Reason 1 – 
You COMPARE
Yes – you compare to motivate your child
But your child feels – “They don’t love me – they love that other child.”

Reason 2 – 
You focus on COMPETITION.
Yes - you want your child to win.
But it makes your child feel – “They don’t love me – they love the prizes and awards”

Reason 3 – 
You CRITICISE
Yes – you want your child to improve and become the best.
But it makes your child feel – “They hate everything about me.”

NO
These parenting techniques do not work.

You need to show your love
And showing your love is not the same as pampering
It is helping your child become the best version of themselves without hurting them with COMPARISON, COMPETITION and CRITICISM.

Are you ready to change?

Type LOVE and change now.

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