Are you worried about your child’s arrogance?

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Are you worried about your child’s arrogance? 

Do you worry that instead of saying sorry when they make a mistake, they argue and answer back? 

Then here is what you need to do.

Change yourself with this 5 A formula.

When you Change your child will Change too

The first A is ADMIT

When you make a mistake admit it. Don't insist that you are right 

The second A is APOLOGISE 

Say sorry with sincerity and humility When you are wrong.

The third A is ALLOW 

Create an open environment where your child is allowed to point out your mistakes 

The fourth A is ANALYSE

Spend time analysing what caused you to make the mistake. If possible do this in discussion with your child and with their inputs

The fifth A is AVOID

In the future - plan to avoid the mistake. If possible share your plan with your child. 

Children learn whether to react to their mistakes or respond to them from us. 

When they react they keep making the same mistake. When they respond they learn how to change.

Type 5 A and start showing your child how to RESPOND and not REACT.

Share this with those who call your child arrogant so that they understand how they are triggering your child’s arrogance and stop criticising your child.

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