Are you tired of your children fighting?

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Are you tired of your children fighting? 

Do you know that you could be creating the fight? 

Yes !!

As parents we often cause sibling rivalry with our parenting 

Here is what you could be doing wrong and what you should change 

1. Stop spending too much time in closed spaces

Spend time in nature 

More fights happen when children are indoors or cooped up in a car

2. Stop rushing 

When children are Rushed they get stressed

This leads to them behaving badly with their siblings and causes fights

3. Don't try to Motivate by using Comparison and Competition 

This just makes children hate the child they are being compared with

When children hate each other they fight

4. Don't buy too many things

The more things children have the more they will fight.

Get one toy and play with them so that they learn how to play instead of fighting 

5. Teach collaboration 

Collaborate to get all the house work done.

Show your children how to get along by getting along as a couple. Children learn by watching their parents.

When parents don't fight. Children learn to solve problems without fighting as well.

Recognize what you need to change to make your children love each other.

Type LOVE and make your family a place where there is lots of love and happiness 

Share this on your story to make a commitment to change.