​Are you planning a second child?

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​Are you planning a second child?

You should if you want a child to love and cherish.

You should not -

1. If your goal is to get your older child a playmate

2. If your goal is to feel the magic of being pregnant again

3. If your goal is to ensure that someone is there for your child when you are no more.

Watch the reel to know why having a second baby with these goals can leave you disappointed.

Being disappointed is unfair to the baby who has entered the world thinking that they will be loved just for who they are and not for any other reason.

Don't do that.

Plan a second baby only if you are eager to pour unconditional love out of your heart onto your baby.

Share this with those who have been giving you these reasons for having a baby.

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