Do you think
OK let my child HATE ME now they will love me later for what I am doing
And with that - do you continue to scold and punish?
It doesn't work like that.
The pain you cause - leaves scars
And these scars destroy your relationship with your child forever.
When the relationship is destroyed your child feels alone and afraid
Success cannot bring happiness
Happiness creates success.
Love your child so much that they want to do the best for themselves
Your love must make them believe that they deserve the best
That is when they will work towards being the best.
Unconditional love is the only leverage we have in parenting
No pain No gain is NOT a formula that you can apply to parenting