And with that - do you continue to scold and punish?

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Do you think

OK let my child HATE ME now they will love me later for what I am doing 

And with that - do you continue to scold and punish?

NO 

It doesn't work like that.

The pain you cause - leaves scars

And these scars destroy your relationship with your child forever.

When the relationship is destroyed your child feels alone and afraid

Success cannot bring happiness 

Happiness creates success.

Love your child so much that they want to do the best for themselves 

Your love must make them believe that they deserve the best 

That is when they will work towards being the best.

Unconditional love is the only leverage we have in parenting 

No pain No gain is NOT a formula that you can apply to parenting