Do you feel your child makes you angry?
No they don't These are the 3 reasons you get angry 1. You are tired and overworked When you are tired everything makes you angry. Plan more self care and rest 2. You are focused on Perfection Remember Perfection is impossible. What is perfect today will seem imperfect to you tomorrow. Running after Perfection will take you further and further away from happiness and satisfaction. And that will make you more angry. Start enjoying imperfection 3. You are afraid of being judged Don't worry about what others will say. They will say something no matter what you do. Don't try to please them and cause yourself stress. You can never make everyone happy. Do what makes you happy and you will not get angry so easily. Blaming your child for making you angry is destroying their confidence. Stop destroying your child to be perfect for someone else. Type STOP and stop now. Share this reel to announce to the world "I will not harm my child to please anyone: If you want to shift your focus from pleasing others to doing the best for your child, join my course. DM PB for details Follow me for more #parenting #Anger #Perfection #peoplepleaser
Are you feeling like a BAD PARENT?
1. Does your child throw TANTRUMS? 2. Does your child NOT LISTEN to you? 3. Is your child NOT LEARNING? NO. It is NOT YOUR FAULT!! All this is because of your mobile phone. How is your mobile phone affecting your child? 1. When you are on your phone your child feels DISCONNECTED with you And throws TANTRUMS to get your attention and feel connected. 2. The EMOTIONAL DISCONECT that your child feels with you because of your phone results in them not listening to you even when they can hear Because emotional connection is essential to convert HEARING into LISTENING 3. The lack of LISTENING is resulting in your child NOT LEARNING That mobile in your hand is DESTROYING YOU AND YOUR CHILD YOUR PHONE IS DESTROYING YOUR CHILD Type OK and put away your phone now!! Share this so that every adult who is around your child parent / grandparent / uncle / aunt / cousin - sees it and puts away their phone. DONâT ALLOW ANYONE TO DESTROY YOUR CHILD and then BLAME YOU and MAKE YOU FEEL GUILTY Start Parenting with Neuroscience It will make parenting super easy DM me and say PB If you want to subscribe to my Neuroscience based parenting course for the parents of 0 to 7 year olds and be Part of my PARENTING BLUEPRINT community where I handhold parents through their parenting challenges Follow me to know more. #parenting #mobilephone #tantrums #mothersguilt
âWhat to do if your child keeps falling sick?
Think about it logically and work on these 3 areas - 1. How to prevent infection ⢠Wash hands frequently. Do not use soaps that kill germs. ⢠Detect, prevent and treat allergies. ⢠Keep the house clean. But DO NOT use disinfectants. ⢠Breastfeed for as long as possible. ⢠Take age appropriate vaccines 2. How to build immunity to fight infection ⢠Focus on diet â No junk food. Eat a variety of freshly cooked food. ⢠Sleep â at least 10 hours in the night ⢠Stress â Stop scolding ⢠Sunlight â spend more time outdoors ⢠Exercise â at least 2 hours of physical play every day ⢠Water â drink lots of water 3. How to promote rapid recovery from infection ⢠Medicines -take them exactly the way your doctor has prescribed. ⢠Rest â prioritize it over everything else ⢠Right food â give easily digestible healthy food without force feeding ⢠Remove germs â focus on steam inhalation and other measures to wash out the germs There are no shortcuts when it comes to building immunity. Immunity is built by living life the right way. Type your question about immunity in the comments and I will answer it in future reels. Share this so that other parents do this and their children fall sick less often too. This will result in your child being less sick too.
I just want my child to have GOOD VALUES
Most parents who consult with me only want their children to be good, honest, kind and so on. When they find that their children have qualities like intelligence, athletic talents, artistic talents and so on but lack good values, they are very disappointed. Yes â it happens. Because it is much easier to build skills than to instill values. Values cannot be taught. They are imbibed by your child from you. And this happens when you are completely unaware that you are passing on values. Most people imagine that children start learning values when they start understanding language. But that is not true. Your baby starts imbibing values as soon as they are born. These are 3 mistakes that you must avoid while parenting if you want to pass on good values to your child 1. Threatening âIf you do this â I will do thatâ This teaches BULLYING 2. Bribing âIf you do this â I will give you thatâ This teaches MANIPULATION 3. Tricking âGo to school â teacher will give you a chocolateâ This teaches LYING Share this now with everyone who has advised you to do this kind of parenting and now blames you for your childâs bad behaviour Shortcuts donât work in parenting. Donât keep parenting the way you see others parenting. Start Parenting with Neuroscience. DM âPBâ if you want to subscribe to my neuroscience based course for the parents of 0 to 7 year olds called âThe Parenting Blueprint Course for the first seven yearsâ Follow me for more. #parenting #neuroscience #values
âDoes your LAZY child have the POTENTIAL to be a WINNER if they just put in the work?
But are you struggling to make them do the work that they need to do? Then you need to start PARENTING with NEUROSCIENCE Use the 5 W formula to bring out the WINNER in your LAZY child. Save this now 1. Explain WHY Your child is not lazy. Your child finds the work meaningless. No, you cannot motivate your child with âYou will get full marksâ. Show them where they will be able to use the skill they are learning in real life to motivate them 2. Show them WHERE to start Your child is not lazy. Your child is overwhelmed with the quantity of work does not know where to start Make a plan with them and show them how to break down the task into small parts. That will motivate them. 3. Suggest WHAT they can do to improve Your child is not lazy. When your child is stuck and doesnât know what to do to improve they give up. Give your child specific suggestions Donât say âstudy moreâ. Show them what to study and how 4. Support them WHEN they fail Your child is not lazy Your child is afraid of failing Donât blame your child for being lazy when they fail. Help your child to use each failure as a steppingstone to success 5. WATCH OUT before you label your child Your child is not lazy Your child believes that they are lazy because you keep saying that they are lazy Stop labelling your child Appreciate your child for being easy going and relaxed This will help them to overcome the stress of performance and do well. Type WINNER and share this now. Let the people who call your child lazy know that your child is destined to be a winner Follow me for more. #parenting #lazy #motivation #fearof failure
âAre you worried about bullying?
You can prevent bullying. STOP BULLYING your child AT HOME. Bullying at home lowers your childâs self-esteem and makes them an easy target for bullies outside the house. Are you wondering what bullying in the house means? These are the ways in which you may be bullying your child at home 1. Hitting and shouting at your child A bully does the same 2. Locking your child up in the bathroom A bully does the same 3. Threatening âI will take away your toyâ or âI will hot youâ A bully does the same 4. Calling names â âStupidâ âIdiotâ A bully does the same 5. Always taking sides with one child when siblings fight and forcing the other adjust A bully also gangs up against the bullied and plays favorites 6. Giving silent treatment when your child does not do what you want A bully similarly excludes when your child does something they donât like If you teach your child that they should accept slaps and abusing from you â they will accept it from others and get bullied. If you teach your child that they will be accepted only if they do what they are being told â they will do what the bullies are saying and get bullied. If you teach your child that they are not good enough because they are not performing in academics or sports â they will begin to believe that they are less than others and get bullied. Do you want that? Type STOP and STOP BULLYING AT HOME That is what will protect your child from bullying outside. Share this now if someone else is bullying your child so that they see it and understand that you know that they are responsible for your child being bullied. Follow me for more #parenting #bullying #selfesteem
Does your child get angry all the time?
Then this is what you need to do 1. Don't say STOP CRYING Tears that stay inside come out as anger 2. Don't get angry when they say NO If they cannot express their likes and dislikes they will get angry 3. Don't PUNISH If they are always afraid of punishment they will get angry because of fear Allow tears and no s Don't punish your child foe having emotions Then they will not always be ANGRY Share this now so that those who tease your child and tell them not to cry see it and change Share this now so that those who force your child see it and change Type okay and change yourself Follow me For more #parenting #Anger #tears #discipline
Your childâs self-esteem is built when you spend time with them.
But what should you do during that time? Here are 5 different ways you can plan your time with your child to ensure that you build their self-esteem 1. Testimonial time Play a game where each person in the family lists out 3 things they like about the other members of the family. Your child will be pleasantly surprised to see what you like about her/him and so will you. Feeling liked for who they are raises your childâs self-esteem 2. Tracking time Write a Gratitude Journal List out 3 good things that happened that day. Focusing on what is good instead of what is bad raises your childâs self-esteem. 3. Teamwork time Start doing a tough project with your child. Invest time doing something small every day to reach the goal you have set. Working together and achieving something seemingly impossible through consistent effort raises your childâs self-esteem 4. Trekking time A trek is always about overcoming unexpected physical and mental challenges Overcoming challenges builds self-esteem 5. Trust time Trust your child to do something like paying the electricity bill independently Being trusted with responsibility builds self-esteem. Type TIME and schedule time for these things in your calendar immediately Share this and inspire other parents to do the same. Follow me for more. #parenting #selfesteem #kidsactivities
âIf you are worried about your child not talking â
See if you are making these 5 BIG MISTAKES And STOP MISTAKE 1 Feeding your child pureed food Stop now! Biting and chewing develop the muscles required for speaking. Start offering food with various textures and tastes . MISTAKE 2 Using a sippy cup Stop now! A sippy cup prevents the development of the mature swallow pattern required for speaking. Start using a regular glass. MISTAKE 3 Wiping your childâs face as soon as there is food on it. Stop now! Left to themselves children slowly learn to close their lips to keep the food in. This builds the lip muscles for speech Start encouraging self feeding MISTAKE 4 Distract feeding your child with the mobile or TV. Stop now! The mobile or TV hamper the development of social skills and communication skills. Start eating with your child and chat with them while eating MISTAKE 5 Scolding your child for not finishing their food Stop now! When a child is not allowed to trust their own bodyâs signals of fullness and hunger, they lose confidence and stop talking. Start giving your child the freedom to decide how much they will eat. Donât base your parenting practices and decisions on what others are doing or saying What you think is best for your child may be causing a big problem for your child. Think about parenting in the context of neuroscience and brain development. START PARENTING WITH NEUROSCIENCE. DM me if you want to join my course for the parents of 0 to 7 years. Share this now so that no one judges you for not doing these things for your child. And realizes that what you are doing is the best. Follow me for more #parenting #neuroscience #fussyeating #speechdelay
âAre you worried about early puberty?
Then this is what you should know for your daughter 1. The normal age range for onset of puberty is 9 to 13 years. Begin to prepare your daughter for her first period from the time she turns 8 years old. 2. The age of onset of puberty is determined by the childâs genes, but lifestyle plays an important role too. Right from the time your child starts eating solids â focus on providing fresh food cooked at home. 3. Preventing obesity is one of the most important things you can do to prevent early puberty. Avoid giving your child sugary and fatty foods. Eat a fibre rich diet for good gut health. Promote an active lifestyle with lots of outdoor time. 4. Chemicals that disrupt endocrine function can cause early puberty. Avoid cooking and serving food in plastic containers. Avoid packaged and processed food laden with chemicals. Try to eat organic food that is pesticide free. Avoid drinking water from plastic bottles. Do you want a set of 42 healthy (vegetarian) recipes that cater to every meal for a whole week? Type YES and I will send you the payment details for purchase. Share this now so that junk food disappears from all your childâs friendâs houses as well and makes your life easy. Follow me for more. #parenting #nutrition #junkfood #healthyrecipes #healthydiet |
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