Many parents are scared of HOLIDAYS
Because of the tantrums they bring along. Are you one of them? When your child is at home all day - do they keep throwing tantrums? Of course that is extremely exhausting. So what can you do? Follow the 5H formula for HAPPY HOLIDAYS Save it now!! The 1st H is HABIT Don't make the mistake of letting go of routines completely Let your child stick to their usual hygiene and sleep habits The 2nd H is HUGS Make sure the Holidays are about love more than anything else. Give lots of hugs to show your love The 3rd H is HURRY Make sure you don't plan too many Activities such that you are constantly rushing and hurrying Remember Holidays are for rest The 4th H is HOP Allow and encourage jumping and hopping If you prevent jumping you will soon find yourself in the middle of a tantrum The 5th H is HEALTHY The Holidays seem like a time for junk food, but junk food causes tantrums so stick to healthy food. Make crunchy and chewy snacks with healthy ingredients. This will reduce tantrums Type 5H and Save the 5H formula NOW for enjoyable Holidays. Share this so that no one judges you for being strict about healthy food, routines, not putting your child in extra classes and allowing jumping around. Follow me for more. #tantrums #parenting #Holidays
Does your child LOVE junk food?
Does your child keep asking for junk food? Does your child refuse to eat healthy food? Do you worry that your childâs love for junk food is starting to look like JUNK FOOD ADDICTION? Then this is what you need to do to reduce your childâs love for junk food 1. Donât give junk food as a REWARD. Never tell your child â âI will give you a chocolate if you doâ¦â¦.â âI will take you for pizza if you get â¦..marksâ Junk food is addicting because it triggers off the reward pathway of the brain and makes your child feel good. This feeling makes your child eat more and more junk food. When you give junk food as a reward â you make this worse. Your child now begins to equate junk food with (a) Rewards (b) Your love (c) Your approval This increases their addiction. 2. Donât give junk food to END A TANTRUM. When your child throws a tantrum â they need your love to calm down. When you give them a chocolate during the tantrum â they begin to think that junk food is love. This makes them love junk food. 3. Donât give junk food when your child REFUSES TO EAT HEALTHY FOOD When children refuse to eat â they often do it to feel powerful. In a world where they are so small that they have no power and no right to make any decision â they show their power by refusing to eat. When we give them junk food at this point so that they eat âsomethingâ they begin to associate junk food with power and victory. This makes them love junk food. Donât make these mistakes. Type FOOD and make these changes now. Share this so that others who give your child chocolates, biscuits, chips and other junk food as gifts and rewards to show their love â see this and stop. Follow me for more. #parenting #junkfood #kidsnutrition
Do you SHOUT at your child instead of HITTING?
Do you know SHOUTING IS AS BAD AS HITTING? Yes. Shouting is emotional abuse. Think of it like this. Would you be okay with your spouse (husband / wife) SHOUTING at you instead of HITTING? Would the shouting not hurt? Would the shouting not destroy your confidence? Would the shouting not affect your relationship? Would the shouting not affect your ability to think logically? Of course it would. You would never like to live with someone who shouts at you. Even if they never hit you. Because of the impact it has on your BRAIN even though they have not harmed your BODY. But your child has no choice. Your child has to live with you. Even though every time you shout â IT DAMAGES THEIR BRAIN. So have you tried to stop shouting? I am sure you have. But do you still end up shouting? If the answer is yes â then this is what you need to know. You shout because you want your child to do something that is good for them. And you get angry because they are not doing that. But do you know â in the first 7 years of life your child is programmed by nature to do only those things that build their brain? And they throw tantrums because you are not allowing them to build their brain. 1. They never sit down and read â because running around builds their brain. 2. They touch everything and make a mess â because they learn through exploration using all their sense organs. 3. They refuse to eat â because they need to play more than eat to grow their brain. When you stop them from doing these things that they are naturally programmed to do to build their brain, they start asking for the TV and the mobile. But what should you do then? You canât stop teaching them! You canât allow them to do whatever they like! You canât allow them to stay hungry! And that is why you shout. Can you teach them, and feed them in a way that grows their brain? Yes â it is possible! Start PARENTING with NEUROSCIENCE!! If you want to learn how to do that â you can subscribe to my PARENTING BLUEPRINT COURSE for the parents of 0- to 7-year-olds. Send me a message saying âPBâ and I will send you the details. #parenting #toddlerparenting
Does your child want to repeat the same things over and over again?
The same book The same story The same toy The same game Do you get worried when this happens? Do you get angry when this happens? Donât worry. Donât get angry. Repetition builds the brain. Your child knows this and that is why your child insists on repeating things. Here are some things you should know about repetition â 1. Repetition is proof that your child can FOCUS and CONCENTRATE without getting bored. 2. Repetition is proof that your child is developing a longer ATTENTION SPAN 3. Repetition is proof that your child is trying to MASTER SKILLS 4. Repetition is proof that your child is trying to build a CONCEPT. Repetition builds the brain by strengthening neural pathways. Do not rush your child from experience to experience and activity to activity just because others are doing it. Type REPEAT and allow repetition so that your child can build an amazing brain. Share this now and start PARENTING WITH NEUROSCIENCE. If you want to learn more about Parenting with Neuroscience And do the right things for your childâs brain - subscribe to my course for the parents of 0- to 7-year-olds. Send me a message saying PB and I will share joining details. Follow me for more. #parenting #focus #attention #repetition
Are you trying to build your childâs brain?
Then here is the 3B formula you should know â The first B â BRAINS are BUILT not BORN. Donât do tests to find out about your childâs talents, interests, and personality with the goal of sending them to the right classes and turn them into prodigies. Play with them yourself for whole brain development. That will result in them becoming the best versions of themselves. The second B - BEING is more important than BUYING. No matter what you BUY your child â a flashcard, a toy, or an app, they will not build your childâs brain unless you work on BEING the parent your child needs. Spend time understanding your child through the lens of NEUROSCIENCE so that you know what their growing brain needs and give them that. The third B â BORING is better than BUSY. Rushing your child from class to class, activity to activity and playdate to playdate and living a BUSY life can do more harm than good if it leads to tantrums and anger. A BORING life that allows you to BREATHE and BOND is much better for your childâs brain. Give your child lots of time for free play. Give yourself enough time to rest. Follow these 3B s and parenting will become easy, effortless, and enjoyable. Type RELAX and start using the 3B formula today. Share this to decrease the PARENTING PEER PRESSURE that is making life so difficult for parents today. If you want to embrace this way of parenting â DM me. Type âPBâ in the message to know more about my PARENTING with NEUROSCIENCE course that makes brain building easy. Follow me for more. #parenting #neuroscience #brainbuilding
Are you worried about your childâs safety?
Are you wondering how you can keep them safe when you are not around? Here is the answer Teach them how and when to say these 3 things- 1. "Please Stop " When they donât like something someone is doing to them 2. "Please help" When they are in trouble 3. "No" When they donât want to do something We are always telling children to listen and obey. We must teach them to disobey as well. If we don't teach them that They will not be safe. Have you done that? Type OK and do it NOW Share this so that others Don judge you for giving your child a VOICE And asking them to speak up. Follow me for more #parenting #abuse #childsafety
Do you feel guilty when your child is bored?
Donât feel guilty. Boredom is essential for success. Do you know why? To be successful at anything â your child needs to practice. Yes!! Practice makes perfect. But practice is boring. If you entertain your child too much â your child will not be able to endure the boredom of practice. And that will become a roadblock to success. Donât rush to entertain your child when they are bored. 1. Give them a hug and a kiss. They need connection. 2. Give them some instruction free time to laze and dream. 3. Give them some place to run, jump and shout and release their energy. Also â set a good example. Donât pick up your phone to entertain yourself as soon as you are bored. Type FREE and be guilt free when your child is bored. Share this with those who may judge you for not keeping your child busy. Follow me for more. #parenting #boredom #entertainment
Do you get angry and shout and hit when your child makes a mistake?
Do you know that by doing this â you are missing a golden opportunity to build your childâs brain? Yes! Right after a mistake â the brain is eager to make new neural connections and learn and grow so that the mistake does not happen again. When your childâs brain is in this âeager to learnâ state, if you react to their mistake by shouting and hitting â your child will learn to shout and hit. If you use this âeager to learnâ state to teach your child what their mistake was and what they can do next time to avoid this mistake, your child will probably not make the mistake next time. Wrong parenting techniques get you the wrong results and often create problems that never existed before. Do you want to do the right things in parenting? Type YES and start Parenting with Neuroscience now. Share this on your story and say â@debmitadutta I promise to changeâ! If you want to do my neuroscience-based course for the parents of 0 -7-year-olds to make this change happen, DM PB and I will send you the link to register for the course. #parenting #parentingwithneuroscience #discipline #mistakes
Are you an EXHAUSTED and OVERWHELMED mom?
Then these are the 3 things you need to do 1. Let go of Perfection Your child does not need a perfect life They need a happy mom Do what makes you happy and no more 2. Ask for Help Asking for help is not a sign of weakness It is a sign of strength. You need a lot of courage to ask for help. 3. Prioritize Self care You cannot make anyone else feel good if you are not feeling good. Look after yourself and your child will be happier Stop trying to be a SUPER MOM Be a SMART MOM Type SMART MOM and share this. Let's normalize NOT being a super mom. Follow me for more #IWD #internationalwomensday #supermom
Why do I have to do everything for my child?
Why canât my child be INDEPENDENT? Why do I have to keep reminding my child to do everything? Why canât my child be RESPONSIBLE? Why does my child lose interest so easily? Why is my child not PERSISTENT? These are some of the most common questions I get from parents. So, is there a way to make children independent, responsible and persistent? Yes there is â If you want your child to be INDEPENDENT Stop giving too many INSTRUCTIONS. If you want your child to be RESPONSIBLE Stop giving REWARDS for doing things. If you want your child to be PERSISTENT Stop PRAISING your child constantly when they are doing something. Doing these things wires the brain wrongly. Stop blaming your child. Type AMAZING and change your parenting style now to make amazing things happen Share this so that those who are blaming your child for being independent, responsible and not persistent will understand what they need to do. Start PARENTING with NEUROSCIENCE and wire the brain correctly so that your child doesnât have these challenges. Follow me for more. #parenting #responsible #independent #persistent #discipline |
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