Do you want your child to get good marks in the exams?
When your child does not score well in the exams - Do you get angry and blame them? Stop Understand that you are playing a big role In their poor score if you are - 1. Always asking your child to "Hurry up" and "Finish fast" in everything that they are doing. This Hurry that you are teaching them is what is causing them to rush in the exams. And their rushing is making them make silly mistakes and lose marks. Stop now Don't say Eat fast Walk fast Finish fast All the time 2. Always scolding your Child for not giving the right answer This leads to the child not Focusing on writing the steps neatly and correctly. In the exam the maximum marks are given for the steps and not the actual answer Performance in exams cannot just be improved by scolding the child. Many times it requires us to change our own attitude and behavior So are you going to do your bit to increase your child's MARKS Type MARKS if you are and start right now. Share this So that others stop doing this to your child as well. Follow me to know more Parenting tips for better marks in exams for teens and preteens
Do you hate it when your child gets a viral fever?
Who doesnât But do you know? You can use every episode of viral fever to build your childâs immunity and ensure that your child falls sick less often and recovers quickly when they are ill. And building immunity is very easy if you know these 5 things 1. Antibiotics are not helpful in viral fevers Antibiotics kill bacteria not viruses Antibiotics must only be taken when your doctor prescribes them Using antibiotics at random for viral fevers can actually make things worse, because the antibiotics will kill the good bacteria in your childâs body and reduce their immunity. This will make your child fall sick more often 2. Rest is the real treatment The one thing that can help your child to recover quickly is rest. The immune system needs all the energy it can get when it has to fight viral fevers. If your child spends their energy going to school and so on â the immune system will not be able to fight the virus and your child will stay sick for longer 3. Expect the fever to shoot up at night Donât panic when your childâs fever shoots up at night. The high fever is a sign that your childâs immune system is fighting hard. Be prepared to monitor and tackle the fever as advised by your doctor 4. Do not force your child to eat All the energy that is usually used for digestion is diverted to the immune system to fight the virus. That is why your child is not hungry. Do not force your child to eat. Wait for their appetite to come back. 5. Wash away the virus Focus on steam inhalation and gargling to wash the virus out of the nose and throat so that the infection resolves faster. Give your child lots of water to wash out the toxins from their system in urine Use every episode of viral fever to build immunity. If you want to know more about âBuilding Immunity in Kidsâ type IMMUNITY and I will send you the Amazon link to my e-book (INR 52.50 only) Share this to build the immunity of all the children around you so that they donât get sick and pass on the infection to your child Follow me for more parenting tips
If your child hits
It does NOT mean your child is a BAD CHILD It does NOT mean you are BAD PARENT It means you need to do these 10 things 1. Build your childâs vocabulary Not being able to communicate what they need leads to frustration which comes out in hitting 2. Listen carefully whenever they say something and try to understand what they are saying. If you start listening only when they hit, they will hit instead of speaking 3. Follow them around if they are prone to hitting other children and show them how they can cooperate and collaborate in real time so that they don't have to hit to problem solve in social situations 4. Reduce screen time to reduce anxiety and agitation 5. Increase outdoor play time to keep them calm 6. Reduce exposure to violence. Don't fight in front of them. Don't allow them to watch shows where the characters fight and hit. And of course NEVER hit them 7. Do not laugh when someone falls and hurts themselves either in a story, a TV show or in real life. So that they don't learn that others pain is funny. 8. Never laugh at your child when they are crying. That teaches your child to enjoy others pain instead of teaching them empathy. 9. When your child has hit someone. Don't shout at them or hit them. Remove them from the scene immediately and take them to a place where they can calm down. Don't shame them. Instead show them what they can now do to repair the damage. 10. Coach your child to not use hitting as a problem solving tool by helping them explore different ways to solve problems. Type GOOD if you believe that you have a GOOD CHILD who just needs to learn coping skills. Does your child hit? Share this so that those who call your child BAD can see it and understand Does another child hit your child often? Share this so that the parents of the child who hits your child can see this And follow these 10 steps. Follow me for more
Why is parenting teenagers so difficult?
Is it because they are difficult? No. It is because we don't practice the 3Ts What are the 3 Ts TRUST Do you believe your teen? Do you trust them to study? Do you trust them to do the right things? Start now TRANSPARENCY Are you emotionally blackmailing your teen? Are you trying to motivate them with rewards? Stop now TEAMWORK Are you helping your teen achieve THEIR goals? Or are you always saying no and pushing them towards your goals? Rethink your role in your childâs life. It is their life. Guide them and support them. Be on their team. Don't obstruct them Don't distract them. Are you struggling with parenting your teenager/ preteen Stay tuned. I am going to announce a 5 module course for the parents of teens soon called - "Tools for teen and preteen parenting" Share this And follow me for more
âDo you know how easily you can improve your childâs marks in the exams?
If you don't watch this reel And make these changes 1. Stop scolding 2. Stop Screentime 3. Stop sitting All these increase anxiety and affect your childâs learning, memory and mistakes. So type STOP now and stop increasing your childâs anxiety Yes. It is really that easy to improve your childâs marks. DM me if you want to buy my book "How to help your child score better" for INR 52 only Share this And follow me for more Never blame your child for not learning Change the way you teach By understanding the neuroscience of learning Watch this reel And follow me for more Share this with a parent who needs to see this
Are you worried about your childâs height?
Are you looking for a way to make your child tall? Then this is what you need to know. 1. No health drinks / powders can make your child tall. 2. Frequent and prolonged illnesses can affect height 3. A balanced diet, lots of exercise and sunshine Are the only things that can help your child grow taller. Are you interested in knowing how you can improve your childâs Immunity and prevent Frequent and prolonged illnesses? Type IMMUNITY below and I will share a reel on this soon. Share this And follow me for more. #Doctor #parentingexpert #height#immunity #tall
Do you use mittens for your baby?
You should not. Babies donât need mittens. Donât worry about their cold hands. That is normal. If the environment is warm, you need not worry. Donât use mittens to prevent scratches. It is much better to file and buff nails. There are several problems with using mittens. 1. Mittens donât allow your baby to touch and feel you. This makes them feel lonely and scared and they cry more. 2. When babies wear mittens, they cannot suck their fingers to self-soothe and they therefore cry more. 3. Not being able to see your baby put their fingers in their mouth makes you miss hunger cues and results in more crying. 4. Wearing mittens does not allow your baby to explore their environment. This hampers brain development. 5. Mittens hamper the development of motor skills because the hands are restricted. 6. Because babies cannot feel their hands, they cannot bring them to their mouth. This hampers the development of hand to eye coordination. 7. When babies wear mittens, they cannot touch your breasts during breastfeeding. This makes breastfeeding difficult. 8. If your baby puts the mittens in their mouth, they may end up eating the mitten fibers which could be toxic. If you are using mittens â stop now. It is doing more harm than good. Well meaning friends and family often give the wrong advice when it comes to newborn care. Attend my prenatal newborn care class if you are pregnant (available both online and offline) to prepare yourself for birthing, breastfeeding, and newborn care. Or GIFT the prenatal class to a loved one on their baby shower. Please connect with me on 9611739400 on WhatsApp for details. #breastfeeding #breastmilk#prenatalclasses #mittens#babyshowergift
Do you get upset when your child has a fight with their friends?
Don't get upset Fights and disagreements are impossible to avoid in this world. And Fights with friends teach children how to navigate the real world When children learn to manage their emotions through Fights and disagreements When they learn how to get along with others They learn a very important lifeskill But sometimes as loving parents we don't allow children to learn this life skill Because it is difficult for us to see our child hurt and crying We feel like - 1. Keeping our child away from children who fight 2. Stepping in and solving every fight. If you want your child to learn the important lifeskill of getting along with others, don't do either of the above. Instead when your child cries after a fight Stay calm Hold your child Let them complain and cry Empathize with their pain Once they have calmed down they will be able to find a simple solution to the problem themselves. What do you do when your child has a fight with their friends? Do share in comments. Share this And follow me for more #fight
Are you worried about your childâs anger?
Does your child get angry easily? Is your child always angry? Are you afraid of your childâs anger issues? Then I have a simple solution for you. Help your child build a TENT Yes! Your child needs a TENT A tent gives your child a space of their own where they can 1. Calm down 2. Feel in control 3. Feel safe 4. Think Try it now!! Just 2 chairs with a bed sheet draped over them can serve as a tent. I am sure your child will have lots of ideas too. Overcome challenges with PLAY Do you want more play ideas to help your child calm down? Type PLAY and I will send them to you. Share this and follow me @debmitadutta for more. Letâs make parenting easy for ourselves and fun for our kids. Follow for more |
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