There are 3 PARENTING MISTAKES that can affect your BABYâS BRAIN DEVELOPMENT
Neuroscience says that babies need 3Ts for their brains to grow. But many times, because we are gripped by parenting peer pressure. We try to do all kinds of other things to grow our babyâs brain. And miss out on these 3 important Ts. The first T is TALK New parents, especially new moms are exhausted. They are also judged a lot and loaded with lots of expectations. They are criticized if their house is messy, they are criticized if their baby cries, they are criticized if they donât look good, they are criticized if they donât show their baby brain development flash cards. They do everything they can to avoid criticism. And this leaves them with no time and energy to talk to their baby. But NEUROSCIENCE says brains are built by talking to babies. Ignore all the criticism and start talking to your baby. The second T is TUMMY TIME Most new parents are afraid of infections and injuries â so they keep their babies far away from the floor. But time on the floor is most important for brain development. Tummy time builds neck control, facilitates exploration and also builds immunity. Keep the floor clean. Watch your baby carefully during tummy time. Then allow and encourage lots of tummy time. The third T is Thumb Sucking New parents, especially new moms are advised by every person they know, to prevent their baby from sucking their thumb. If they listen to their instincts and allow thumb sucking â they are criticized and scolded. Because of this they do not allow thumb sucking But thumb sucking is important to build emotional regulation, motor skills and hand to eye coordination. Remove the mittens and allow thumb sucking. STOP LISTENING to OTHERS and damaging your babyâs brain. They will later criticize you anyway when your baby cries and lot or walks or talks late Type 3T and become part of the BRAIN DEVELOPMENT REVOLUTION by following the 3Ts no matter what anyone says. Share this so that those who give wrong advice see it and realize what they are doing wrong. Follow me for more. #parenting #braindevelopment #milestones â
Are you worried about your childâs poor performance in school?
Do you want to turn your childâs FAILURE Into SUCCESS Then Replace FEAR with FUN When you teach. When children FAIL at something they are filled with FEAR. Scolding them and increasing their FEAR makes things worse FEAR makes their brain shut down And they donât learn what they can do to change their FAILURE Into SUCCESS Every FAILURE can be a Stepping Stone to SUCCESS Replace FEAR with FUN When you teach your child what to do to be SUCCESSFUL next time #parenting #fearoffailure #success
Does your child keep falling sick?
Have you done everything you can to improve your childâs immunity? But despite everything, does your child still fall sick? If your answer is yes â then you need to ask yourself this â âIs my child STRESSED?â Yes. STRESS can lower immunity and cause repeated illness. But childhood is supposed to be stress free. Can a child really be stressed? The answer is yes. Here are some things that lead to stress. 1. Shouting / Hitting / Punishing your child. You may be doing it to teach your child the right thing. But these methods of discipline cause stress. And stress causes illness 2. Force feeding. You may be force feeding your child to ensure that they get all the nutrients that they need to stay healthy and grow. But your forcing is causing stress. And stress causes illness â no matter what your child eats. 3. Device use Do you give your child a device to keep them calm and make them happy? But devices cause stress. And stress causes illness So many parents do all the above things because they love their children very much and want to do the best for them. Their intentions are good â but they end up causing stress and illness. Donât just do what other parents are doing. It is doing more harm than good. Start PARENTING with NEUROSCIENCE. To learn parenting with neuroscience â you can subscribe to my Parenting Blueprint course for the parents of 0- to 7-year-olds. Send me message with PB written and I will share the course details and payment link with you #parentingwithneuroscience #stress
Are you upset that your child does not listen to you?
Then you need this NEUROSCIENCE based 5S formula â The 1st S is â SMILE. If you smile a lot, your child will like you. Since all of us listen to people whom we like, this will ensure that your child listens to you. If you go close to your child, look into their eyes, smile, and say something, they will definitely listen to you. The 2nd S is SYNC If your child is busy doing something â first join them in doing that. Once you are in sync with your child because of the activity you are doing together, tell your child what you want them to do. They will listen. The 3rd S is SINGLE Give only one instruction at a time if you want your child to listen to you. Children have short memories and are easily distracted. If you give too many instructions at once they canât listen to you The 4th S is SING When you want to get your childâs attention, sing out their name instead of shouting. Children pay more attention to high frequency sounds. The 5th S is STORY Every day tell your child a story. This will get them into the habit of listening to you. The 5S formula turns HEARING into LISTENING. Are you ready to see its magic? Type SAY and start speaking with the 5S formula today. Share this so that others who call your child disobedient see this and realize that they need to stop blaming your child and change the way they speak. Follow me to learn PARENTING with NEUROSCIENCE.
Many parents are scared of HOLIDAYS
Because of the tantrums they bring along. Are you one of them? When your child is at home all day - do they keep throwing tantrums? Of course that is extremely exhausting. So what can you do? Follow the 5H formula for HAPPY HOLIDAYS Save it now!! The 1st H is HABIT Don't make the mistake of letting go of routines completely Let your child stick to their usual hygiene and sleep habits The 2nd H is HUGS Make sure the Holidays are about love more than anything else. Give lots of hugs to show your love The 3rd H is HURRY Make sure you don't plan too many Activities such that you are constantly rushing and hurrying Remember Holidays are for rest The 4th H is HOP Allow and encourage jumping and hopping If you prevent jumping you will soon find yourself in the middle of a tantrum The 5th H is HEALTHY The Holidays seem like a time for junk food, but junk food causes tantrums so stick to healthy food. Make crunchy and chewy snacks with healthy ingredients. This will reduce tantrums Type 5H and Save the 5H formula NOW for enjoyable Holidays. Share this so that no one judges you for being strict about healthy food, routines, not putting your child in extra classes and allowing jumping around. Follow me for more. #tantrums #parenting #Holidays
Does your child LOVE junk food?
Does your child keep asking for junk food? Does your child refuse to eat healthy food? Do you worry that your childâs love for junk food is starting to look like JUNK FOOD ADDICTION? Then this is what you need to do to reduce your childâs love for junk food 1. Donât give junk food as a REWARD. Never tell your child â âI will give you a chocolate if you doâ¦â¦.â âI will take you for pizza if you get â¦..marksâ Junk food is addicting because it triggers off the reward pathway of the brain and makes your child feel good. This feeling makes your child eat more and more junk food. When you give junk food as a reward â you make this worse. Your child now begins to equate junk food with (a) Rewards (b) Your love (c) Your approval This increases their addiction. 2. Donât give junk food to END A TANTRUM. When your child throws a tantrum â they need your love to calm down. When you give them a chocolate during the tantrum â they begin to think that junk food is love. This makes them love junk food. 3. Donât give junk food when your child REFUSES TO EAT HEALTHY FOOD When children refuse to eat â they often do it to feel powerful. In a world where they are so small that they have no power and no right to make any decision â they show their power by refusing to eat. When we give them junk food at this point so that they eat âsomethingâ they begin to associate junk food with power and victory. This makes them love junk food. Donât make these mistakes. Type FOOD and make these changes now. Share this so that others who give your child chocolates, biscuits, chips and other junk food as gifts and rewards to show their love â see this and stop. Follow me for more. #parenting #junkfood #kidsnutrition
Do you SHOUT at your child instead of HITTING?
Do you know SHOUTING IS AS BAD AS HITTING? Yes. Shouting is emotional abuse. Think of it like this. Would you be okay with your spouse (husband / wife) SHOUTING at you instead of HITTING? Would the shouting not hurt? Would the shouting not destroy your confidence? Would the shouting not affect your relationship? Would the shouting not affect your ability to think logically? Of course it would. You would never like to live with someone who shouts at you. Even if they never hit you. Because of the impact it has on your BRAIN even though they have not harmed your BODY. But your child has no choice. Your child has to live with you. Even though every time you shout â IT DAMAGES THEIR BRAIN. So have you tried to stop shouting? I am sure you have. But do you still end up shouting? If the answer is yes â then this is what you need to know. You shout because you want your child to do something that is good for them. And you get angry because they are not doing that. But do you know â in the first 7 years of life your child is programmed by nature to do only those things that build their brain? And they throw tantrums because you are not allowing them to build their brain. 1. They never sit down and read â because running around builds their brain. 2. They touch everything and make a mess â because they learn through exploration using all their sense organs. 3. They refuse to eat â because they need to play more than eat to grow their brain. When you stop them from doing these things that they are naturally programmed to do to build their brain, they start asking for the TV and the mobile. But what should you do then? You canât stop teaching them! You canât allow them to do whatever they like! You canât allow them to stay hungry! And that is why you shout. Can you teach them, and feed them in a way that grows their brain? Yes â it is possible! Start PARENTING with NEUROSCIENCE!! If you want to learn how to do that â you can subscribe to my PARENTING BLUEPRINT COURSE for the parents of 0- to 7-year-olds. Send me a message saying âPBâ and I will send you the details. #parenting #toddlerparenting
Does your child want to repeat the same things over and over again?
The same book The same story The same toy The same game Do you get worried when this happens? Do you get angry when this happens? Donât worry. Donât get angry. Repetition builds the brain. Your child knows this and that is why your child insists on repeating things. Here are some things you should know about repetition â 1. Repetition is proof that your child can FOCUS and CONCENTRATE without getting bored. 2. Repetition is proof that your child is developing a longer ATTENTION SPAN 3. Repetition is proof that your child is trying to MASTER SKILLS 4. Repetition is proof that your child is trying to build a CONCEPT. Repetition builds the brain by strengthening neural pathways. Do not rush your child from experience to experience and activity to activity just because others are doing it. Type REPEAT and allow repetition so that your child can build an amazing brain. Share this now and start PARENTING WITH NEUROSCIENCE. If you want to learn more about Parenting with Neuroscience And do the right things for your childâs brain - subscribe to my course for the parents of 0- to 7-year-olds. Send me a message saying PB and I will share joining details. Follow me for more. #parenting #focus #attention #repetition
Are you trying to build your childâs brain?
Then here is the 3B formula you should know â The first B â BRAINS are BUILT not BORN. Donât do tests to find out about your childâs talents, interests, and personality with the goal of sending them to the right classes and turn them into prodigies. Play with them yourself for whole brain development. That will result in them becoming the best versions of themselves. The second B - BEING is more important than BUYING. No matter what you BUY your child â a flashcard, a toy, or an app, they will not build your childâs brain unless you work on BEING the parent your child needs. Spend time understanding your child through the lens of NEUROSCIENCE so that you know what their growing brain needs and give them that. The third B â BORING is better than BUSY. Rushing your child from class to class, activity to activity and playdate to playdate and living a BUSY life can do more harm than good if it leads to tantrums and anger. A BORING life that allows you to BREATHE and BOND is much better for your childâs brain. Give your child lots of time for free play. Give yourself enough time to rest. Follow these 3B s and parenting will become easy, effortless, and enjoyable. Type RELAX and start using the 3B formula today. Share this to decrease the PARENTING PEER PRESSURE that is making life so difficult for parents today. If you want to embrace this way of parenting â DM me. Type âPBâ in the message to know more about my PARENTING with NEUROSCIENCE course that makes brain building easy. Follow me for more. #parenting #neuroscience #brainbuilding
Are you worried about your childâs safety?
Are you wondering how you can keep them safe when you are not around? Here is the answer Teach them how and when to say these 3 things- 1. "Please Stop " When they donât like something someone is doing to them 2. "Please help" When they are in trouble 3. "No" When they donât want to do something We are always telling children to listen and obey. We must teach them to disobey as well. If we don't teach them that They will not be safe. Have you done that? Type OK and do it NOW Share this so that others Don judge you for giving your child a VOICE And asking them to speak up. Follow me for more #parenting #abuse #childsafety |
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