Do you keep hitting your child?
Even though you donât want to. Do you blame your child for that? No. Your child is not making you hit them. You are ADDICTED TO HITTING. Yes Hitting is addicting. A: When your child is not listening. You HIT Your child immediately does what you are asking them to do Your brain loves this INSTANT end to your problem . The next time your child does something you donât like â your brain pushes you to instantly solve the problem by hitting This is how you get ADDICTED TO HITTING B: When your child doesnât listen, it makes you feel powerless. You HIT And your child listens. You feel POWERFUL. Your brain loves this feeling of power. The next time you are feeling powerless â your brain pushes you to hit and feel powerful. This is how you get ADDICTED TO HITTING C: When you are flooded with negative emotions. When you are feeling angry or sad or scared. You HIT And you feel a sense of relief. All your negative emotions have left your body through the impact of the hit. Your brain loves this instant relief. The next time you are flooded with negative emotions â your brain pushes you to hit and feel relieved. This is how you get ADDICTED TO HITTING But hitting DESTROYS YOU AND YOUR CHILD Type STOP And NEVER HIT AGAIN Share this with a parent who hits their child. Play a role in making the world a better place for children. Follow me so that I can keep reminding you never to hit again #parenting #discipline #hitting
Do you want your child to be a winner?
Of course you do. But when is it really important for your child to win? In Preschool? Or In LIFE after school? Of course we want children to win in LIFE But when we get distracted with WINNING Instead of BUILDING the QUALITIES that a WINNER has We spoil our child's chances of WINNING at LIFE What should you do to help your child win at life? 1. Don't get angry when they make mistakes Build CONFIDENCE 2. Choose to do difficult things Build COURAGE 3. Instead of activities give time for FREE PLAY Build MOTIVATION When your child has CONFIDENCE COURAGE MOTIVATION They will definitely WIN at LIFE #motivation #fearoffailure #parentinghacks #winningmindset
If you are complaining that your child is not listening to you?
Ask yourself â Am I listening to my child? We listen to those who listen to us. If you donât listen when your child says â âI donât want to eat.â Your child will not listen to you. FORCE FEEDING causes DISCIPLINE ISSUES Stop force feeding now. In parenting everything is interconnected. Would you like to subscribe to my 5-module course that helps you understand everything about your child so that you can fulfill their needs easily? Type PB and I will send you the course details. Share this so that other people stop pressurizing you to force feed. Remember your child is just a growing brain and a growing body. You cannot be an effective parent without understanding neuroscience and physiology. Follow me to learn parenting with neuroscience. #forcefeeding #fussyeater #kidsnutrition
Are you tired of your children fighting?
Do you know that you could be creating the fight? Yes !! As parents we often cause sibling rivalry with our parenting Here is what you could be doing wrong and what you should change 1. Stop spending too much time in closed spaces Spend time in nature More fights happen when children are indoors or cooped up in a car 2. Stop rushing When children are Rushed they get stressed This leads to them behaving badly with their siblings and causes fights 3. Don't try to Motivate by using Comparison and Competition This just makes children hate the child they are being compared with When children hate each other they fight 4. Don't buy too many things The more things children have the more they will fight. Get one toy and play with them so that they learn how to play instead of fighting 5. Teach collaboration Collaborate to get all the house work done. Show your children how to get along by getting along as a couple. Children learn by watching their parents. When parents don't fight. Children learn to solve problems without fighting as well. Recognize what you need to change to make your children love each other. Type LOVE and make your family a place where there is lots of love and happiness Share this on your story to make a commitment to change.
So many parents complain that their child does not focus while studying
As the final exams come closer let's use neuroscience to help children focus. Here is a 5 S formula for you. The 5 Ss are Sleep See Sip Snack Swing Watch the reel to see what to do with each S Type FOCUS and start doing these simple things today. Are you parenting with neuroscience?. Neuroscience makes Parenting easy. Share this reel And follow me if you want to embrace easy effective and enjoyable parenting using neuroscience.
Do you want your child to have a SUPER BRAIN?
Yes of course you do!! Are you doing EVERYTHING you can to build a super brain? I am sure you are. But all your efforts to build a super brain may fail if you make these 5 MISTAKES 1. Scolding your child to make them learn. When your child is afraid, the part of the brain where new memories are formed becomes smaller. 2. Using bribes and rewards to get them to do things. Bribes and rewards work only in the short term. When your child gets used to them it will only lead to more tantrums 3. Using devices to entertain them. Devices are designed to distract us. If you distract you child â they will never be able to focus. 4. Feeding your child junk food The growing brain needs the right nutrients to grow and develop. Junk food does not have any of the nutrients that the growing brain needs. 5. Getting angry all the time When you get angry easily your child loses courage and confidence. Without courage and confidence even if they know everything they will never be successful. Do you want to stop making these mistakes? Do you want to ensure that your child has a super brain? Then my 5 module course called âThe Parenting Blueprint for the first 7 years.â Is for you This is a recorded course with lifetime access to the content and comes with implementation support via a FB community and LIVE q and a sessions. Type PB and I will send you the course details on DM â
Does your child cry over everything?
Are you tired of the tears that appear in their eyes whenever you say anything? Then you need to ask yourself these 4 questions Question 1 â Do I get irritated when my child cries? If the answer to this is yes â then stop and ask yourself how you would like to be treated when you cry. How would you feel if the person who you expected would understand you â just got irritated? You would feel sad. And the sadness would make you cry more. Allow your child to cry. Try to understand why they are sad. That will reduce their sadness and pain and they will cry less. Question 2 Do I get upset when my child says or does something I donât want? If the answer to this question is yes â then understand this â your child starts crying because they are scared that you will get upset as soon as they disagree with you. Whenever they want something different from you therefore â the fear makes them cry. Stop being so rigid. Allow your child to think and say what they want without getting angry even if you donât agree. Question 3 Am I always in a hurry and focused on perfection? If the answer to that question is yes â then you are probably scolding your child whenever they are slow or when they make a mistake. This lowers their self-esteem and fills them with so much fear when they speak that they start crying. Slow down. Enjoy imperfection. When your child has high self-esteem they will not cry. Question 4 Do I blame my child when things go wrong? You may not do this directly â but even if your child hears you telling someone else that you couldnât do something because of you, they will start blaming themselves for everything. And this guilt will make them cry. Never complain about your child to others How many of these questions did you answer with YES? Type NO and decide that you will ensure that very soon all the answers become NO. Share this on your story so that you must keep your promise to change. Follow me for more. “How can we help our children to become independent learners?”
We started with that question at the @trio_world_school@trioworldschool in January 2023. And in keeping with the school’s extremely organized approach to change, we planned and executed workshops throughout the year for all the stakeholders – the teachers, parents, and students - to achieve that goal. Is it important for children to become independent learners? The answer of course is YES. Independent learning is vital for life. Children who are not independent learners start struggling academically as soon as they move to the 6th grade. In the 6th grade children are expected to understand as the teacher teaches in class, learn what has been taught at home and perform well in tests. Are children able to do this? Many cannot. Children who were doing well in primary school – start performing poorly in middle school because they are not independent learners. Poor performance leads to them losing interest in learning. This then leads to the adults in their life calling them lazy and scolding and punishing them. Which then leads to an absolute hatred of learning. A downward spiral thus begins as the struggle to learn leads to a life that feels like a struggle. The solution? For parents - To shift focus from “how much is learnt” to “how to learn” For teachers - To teach “the way the brain learns” For students – To “use the brain efficiently.” I loved making this happen through the workshops I conducted for teachers, parents, and students throughout the year. As always, I was floored by the enthusiasm with which the teachers, parents and students received every workshop. Partnering with the Trio schools in their initiatives to make learning easier and more enjoyable is my greatest joy every year. I am so grateful for these opportunities to apply neuroscience to create impact. #parentingworkshops #schoolworkshops #teachertraining#studyskills #learning #neuroscienceoflearning
Should you STOP breastfeeding if your baby is THIN?
NO It is a misconception that breastfeeding prevents toddlers from gaining weight. Breastmilk is full of nutrients for as long as it is produced. It does not become watery after 6 months. You must however, start giving your baby solids in addition to Breastmilk after your baby is 6 months old. And alongside that, continue breastfeeding for 2 years or more as YOU like Stopping breastfeeding will not help your child to gain weight for the following reasons - 1.Breastmilk is full of immunity building substances. Stopping breastfeeding will lead to more infections. More infection will lead to more weight loss 2. Breastmilk is a wonderful probiotic. Breastmilk helps in the digestion and absorption of the solids you are giving your child. This leads to weight gain. 3. Breastfeeding reduces stress. And stress free babies fall sick less frequently. This results in better growth and weight gain. MOMS SHOULD BE THE ONES WHO DECIDE WHEN TO STOP BREASTFEEDING. Type BF if you agree. Share this with those who are always telling you what to do. â
Are you a loving Dad who wants to spend the weekend building deep connections with your child?
Do you want to spend the time you have on hand showing your child how much you love them? But do you struggle to find ways to do that? Do you struggle to play with your toddler? Does every play session end with both of you sitting and watching something together on the TV or the mobile? Do you struggle to have a fruitful conversation with your teen? Does every conversation end with your teen getting upset with your criticism and preaching? As a last resort â do you try to buy your child what they want to keep the connection? Does that result in demands and sulking and tears as well? Well - here are some ideas for you on weekends. 1. Appreciate Put in the work and find something to acknowledge and appreciate about your child. Appreciate something they have done or learnt. This builds their self-esteem. 2. Collaborate You can really connect with your child when you work on a common goal. Do some household chores together. Plan it such that you are approaching the chore in an innovative way. This will build your childâs ability to innovate, and they will learn how to contribute. 3. Inspire Run errands with your child. Show them how you conduct yourself outside the house and how you manage yourself in the world. Instead of preaching, show your values in action. This is the best way to show your child to live the way you want them to live. Children love to spend time with their Dads, and it helps them grow physically, mentally, emotionally and socially. Do you know a Dad who needs this? Share it with them. Follow me for more. |
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