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Why does your child get angry all the time?
• You get angry easily → the child’s brain copies anger Your child may also copy other family members who get angry all the time • You keep changing the rules → unpredictability creates anxiety Others in the family may also be breaking rules made by you and making your child anxious • You invalidate emotions → the thinking brain shuts down, anger takes over Others in the family may be making fun of your child for crying Do this instead: Be calm. consistent. compassionate. Share this with those who criticize your child for getting angry Let them understand They must stay calm They must be consistent with your rules They must not make fun of your child for crying Save this. Share this.
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Gen Z is reckless. Gen Z is anxious. Gen Z is demotivated.
How did this happen? In many ways – it was caused by obedience. Obedient children who were always told what to do – started doing whatever they wanted as soon as there was no one to tell them what to do. They became RECKLESS. Obedient children who were always told what to do – panicked when they had to make decisions. They developed ANXIETY. Obedient children who were always told what to do – stopped doing things as soon as they stopped receiving instructions. They had no MOTIVATION. Obedience was the hallmark of good parenting. But evidently obedience did not work. It is time to recognize that Parenting cannot be about ensuring obedience. If we want children to thrive – parenting has to be about teaching children – how to make good decisions with an “under-construction” brain. And for this – parents must understand their child’s “under-construction” brain – its strengths and its challenges. Would you like to learn this and share this with parents as a “Neuroscience Parenting Coach”? I welcome you to my course for parenting coaches. Please DM me for details. Author - Dr Debmita Dutta MBBS, MD Parenting and Wellness Consultant High IQ is no longer enough to succeed in the world today.
Our children need - 1. High LQ - Learning Quotient 2. High AQ - Adabtibility Quotient 3. High EQ - Emotional Quotient Dr Debmita Dutta MDStop now
Sippy cups can cause speech delays and picky eating Here is what happens when sippy cups are used 1. Your child does not develop a mature swallow pattern. This makes them dislike foods with new textures And makes them fussy and slow eaters 2. Your child’s mouth and tongue muscles remain weak This results in difficulty pronouncing some words 3. When a child uses a sippy cup - they often drink an excess of fluids This fills them up and makes them refuse to eat solid food 4. When a child uses a sippy cup, they talk less because their mouth is full. This results in the child talking less and learning slowly When your baby turns 6 months old – start them on a tiny open cup like the cups used to give medicine. When your baby turns 9 months old you can introduce a cup with a short chewable silicone straw. Type STOP and stop using a sippy cup today. SHARE THIS NOW and let all parents know “You won’t feel less guilty is you stop working.” I keep telling moms who ask me if they should stop working and stay at home.
If working was the problem – stay-at-home-moms would not feel guilty. But they do. |
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