Your child is not making you angry.

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Your child is not making you angry.

Your exhaustion is making you angry.
Your embarrassment is making you angry.
Your need for perfection is making you angry.

You are exhausted…
because you are trying to be the best mother.
But that exhaustion turns into anger.
Your anger fills your child with fear.
Fear kills confidence.
Your child stops trying.
This is how we unknowingly create a “lazy” child.

You are embarrassed…
because you are so proud of your child.
But that embarrassment turns into anger.
Your anger teaches your child to seek approval.
Approval kills resilience.
Your child avoids failure.
This is how we unknowingly create a postponer.

You want perfection…
because nothing less than the best feels good enough for your child.
But that pressure turns into anger.
Your anger creates anxiety.
Anxiety blocks decisions.
Your child freezes.
This is how we unknowingly create a demotivated child.

You think anger will push your child forward.
It is the reason they are stuck.

You don’t need to work to the point of exhaustion or stress about perfection

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