You are SPOILING your child with TOO MUCH LOVE

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You are SPOILING your child with TOO MUCH LOVE

Have you been told that by your family members? 

And has that made you feel like a bad mother/ father? 

Then this is what you need to understand about LOVE 

YOU CAN NEVER SPOIL YOUR CHILD WITH TOO MUCH LOVE. 

You can only spoil your child when you give PRESENTS because you feel GUILTY about not having TIME 

You can only spoil your child when you BRIBE them to do things they don’t want to do so that you can get your work done QUICKLY 

You can only spoil your child when you give them ANYTHING to end their TANTRUMS because you are too BUSY to console them 

So your child is not getting SPOILT because of your LOVE 

Your child is getting SPOILT because of your - 

1. Your GUILT because you are not giving them TIME and ATTENTION 

2. Your HURRY to get things done because you can't spend TIME convincing them 

3. Your IRRITATION with their CRYING and TANTRUMS and your desire to end their tantrums without spending TIME 

So the problem is that you don't have TIME

But does PARENTING require all your TIME? 

No 

Just start PARENTING with NEUROSCIENCE 

DM me with PB in the message text if you want details of my PARENTING with NEUROSCIENCE course for the parents of 0 to 7 year olds. 

Share this with those who give your child GIFTS and BRIBES and then say that you are spoiling your child with too much love 

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