She is very good at dancing – but she never dances.

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Do you wonder why your child does not perform even though they know everything?

Many parents often tell me - 
She is very good at dancing – but she never dances.
He knows everything – but he gets nervous and does not answer in the exams.
And so on.

These children don’t lack skills
They are not able to perform because of the lack of CONFIDENCE.

So, it is important to remember this while parenting.
Teaching your child how to do something will not make them SUCCESSFUL

They will SUCCEED if they are CONFIDENT.

And their CONFIDENCE depends on – how much you SCOLD them.

How much you scold them – depends on what you EXPECT from them

What you expect from them – depends on what you KNOW about their growing brain and body.

Every time you scold your child for not doing what you expect – they feel that they are BAD – because they have made you sad and angry.

This lowers their confidence and they cannot perform even though they know everything.

What is the solution?

LEARN ABOUT THE GROWING BRAIN AND BODY so that you have the RIGHT EXPECTATIONS.
Start PARENTING with NEUROSCIENCE.

Don't let your lack of knowledge affect your child’s future 

Type PB if you want to subscribe to my PARENTING with NEUROSCIENCE course and I will send you the details on DM.

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