If your child does not say SORRY

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If your child does not say SORRY

They are not STUBBORN

They just need you to use the neuroscience based 3R formula.

Use it and stop people from criticizing your child

The 3R formula 

1.The first R is RESPECTFUL 

Be RESPECTFUL when you explain their mistake
Do not shout and scold
If you shout – your child feels like you are attacking them
That makes you the villain
They become the victim.
Since victims don’t say sorry.
So your child does not say sorry
They just start blaming you for shouting 
Speak softly and respectfully to your child. 
When they are calm and safe – they will see their mistake and find a way to fix it

2. The 2nd R is REPAIR 

Allow REPAIR
As soon as your child says sorry - immediately forgive and forget
If your child thinks you will remember the mistake and keep poking them about it later 
Why will they say sorry?

3. The third R is RELATIONSHIP 

Build your RELATIONSHIP with your child
When you make a mistake say sorry
If you say sorry – you get back sorry.

Type 3R and do this now

Transform your child and stop people from criticizing them and calling them STUBBORN and ARROGANT.

This is parenting with neuroscience

It can change the way people talk about you and your child

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