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​If I don't tell my child that they are wrong who will tell them?
But then I am scared that criticising them will damage their SELF-ESTEEM And CONFIDENCE So what should I do? Many parents ask me My answer is - Use the SANDWICH TECHNIQUE to criticise your child. That will ensure that your child improves because of your critcism without losing their SELF-ESTEEM And CONFIDENCE So what is the SANDWICH technique? Sandwich the criticism between two layers of appreciation. Like this - Step 1 APPRECIATE That will make them listen Eg. - I really like the way you are learning to ask for what you want nowadays Step 2 SUGGEST CHANGES That will make them think Eg. - But I think if you ask without shouting, you will be more likely to get what you want Step 3 HIGHLIGHT their STRENGTHS That will increase their SELF-ESTEEM And MOTIVATION to change Eg. - You are a very lovable person so you will be able to do this very easily The SANDWICH technique works very well at all ages because it uses NEUROSCIENCE Parenting with Neuroscience makes Parenting easy enjoyable and effective Start PARENTING with NEUROSCIENCE now Share this now and help other parents who may not be using Neuroscience in Parenting Follow me for more. #Parenting #Neuroscience #self-esteem criticism |
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