DON’T MAKE YOUR CHILD PERFECT.

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DON’T MAKE YOUR CHILD PERFECT.

It will NOT make your child SUCCESSFUL

It can DESTROY your child’s FUTURE

What Happens when you make your child PERFECT?

1. They stop trying new things – because they cannot be perfect at something new
We complain that they are DEMOTIVATED

2. They do things at the last minute – because they want an excuse for being imperfect
We complain that they are LAZY

3. They can’t make friends – because they don’t find anyone perfect
We complain that they are UNFRIENDLY

4. They can’t take feedback – because it makes them feel imperfect
We complain that they are SENSITIVE

5. They struggle to adjust – because they expect everything to be perfect
We complain that they are PAMPERED AND SPOILT

6. They get give up easily – because they cannot take the anxiety of making mistakes
We complain that they are NOT HARDWORKING

7. They lie and cheat – because they need to be perfect at all costs
We complain that they are BAD.

STOP trying to make your child PERFECT

Fill them with the COURAGE to make MISTAKES and learn from their mistakes

And tell them that making mistakes does not make them BAD or UNLOVABLE.

That will make them 
TRY MORE
TRY HARDER
TRY AGAIN
And ultimately SUCCEED

Do you want your child to be SUCCESSFUL?

Type YES and throw perfection out of your life

Share this so that all those people who scold you when YOUR CHILD IS NOT PERFECT see it and understand that YOU ARE MAKING YOUR CHILD SUCCESSFUL
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Don’t damage your child’s growing brain because of wrong beliefs.
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