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For the parents of GEN Z and GEN ALPHA
IQ is no longer enough #genZ #genalpha #eq #emotionalintelligence
Don't make your child OBEDIENT
If your child does not learn to say NO If your child does not learn to speak up when they are treated unfairly If your child does not learn to insist on getting what they deserve They will always be given More work Less salary Delayed promotions Stop insisting on obedience Teach communication skills Type SUCCESS and share this now to make your child SUCCESSFUL #obedience #discipline #work
“They just don’t listen.”
What are we really saying when we say that? Leaders I work with - say that about their teams. Parents I work with - say that about their children. But what are they really saying? They are saying that they are poor communicators. The onus of understanding lies with the person speaking. Not with the person listening. People don’t LISTEN when they don’t UNDERSTAND. When I tell leaders this, they are indignant. They say – “But my instruction is absolutely CLEAR.” Yes – being clear is important. But it tells the listener WHAT TO DO. It does not tell the listener WHY And no thinking human being will do something if they don’t understand the WHY - unless there are CONSEQUENCES. When communication only focuses on telling people what to do - we are compelled to bring inconsequences in the form of REWARDS and PUNISHMENTS to get things done. Rewards and punishments make people feel CONTROLLED And that kills motivation. QUIET QUITTING is the new term we are using to describe this. Gen Z are digital natives. They have their own way of getting things done. We don’t need to tell them WHAT TO DO. We only need to help them understand WHY. The problem is – that as leaders – we often don’t know WHY either. That is why we are so focused on the WHAT. Through my work I help leaders and parents articulate their WHY. When we find ourselves frustrated because “they don’t listen to me” – It is time to explore our own WHY. Do you agree? #motivation #quietquitting #genZ
Do you shout at your child when they are studying?
Stop now It is destroying their brain They will never do well in exams if you shout Watch the video to know why Type STOP and stop shouting Share this now so that others who shout at your child stop shouting
Do you use a sippy cup?
Stop now Sippy cups can cause speech delays and picky eating Here is what happens when sippy cups are used 1. Your child does not develop a mature swallow pattern. This makes them dislike foods with new textures And makes them fussy and slow eaters 2. Your child’s mouth and tongue muscles remain weak This results in difficulty pronouncing some words 3. When a child uses a sippy cup - they often drink an excess of fluids This fills them up and makes them refuse to eat solid food 4. When a child uses a sippy cup, they talk less because their mouth is full. This results in the child talking less and learning slowly When your baby turns 6 months old – start them on a tiny open cup like the cups used to give medicine. When your baby turns 9 months old you can introduce a cup with a short chewable silicone straw. Type STOP and stop using a sippy cup today. SHARE THIS NOW and let all parents know #sippycup #fussyeating #speechdelay #pickyeating
3 tips for eating during exams
Tip 1 Focus on SNACKS not meals Full meals are difficult to eat when they are stressed Ensure that the Snack has Complex carbs for energy Crunch for stress relief Tip 2 Avoid tea coffee and energy drinks They increase anxiety and decrease focus Serve milkshakes with a straw Milkshakes give energy Sucking with a straw Reduces stress Tip 3 Add curd to the diet Curd provides proteins and probiotics Protein and Probiotic build immunity and reduce stress. Type GOOD LUCK And share this now to ensure that your child does their best in the exams #exams #cbse #icse #boardexam Do you feel sad that you are bringing your child up in a small town and not in a metro city?11/2/2025
Do you feel sad that you are bringing your child up in a small town and not in a metro city?
Don't feel sad Small towns have things that help you build big brains Happy parenting!! #parenting
Dr Debmita Dutta MBBS, MD
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