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Do you SHOUT when your child MAKES A MESS?
STOP NOW!! It is DAMAGING YOUR CHILD’S BRAIN Messy play is the time when your child is LEARNING a lot When you don’t allow your child the chance to make a mess – They don’t learn many things And when you shout – your child learns to hate the skills they are learning through messy play. This can be TERRIBLE for your child – because the skills that your child learning while making a mess are very important for  READING  WRITING  MATH  SCIENCE  MAKING FRIENDS What can you do to encourage messy play? Arrange for  Paints  Play dough  Mud  Water  Sand and get started. Type MESSY – and share this now – so that no one criticizes you when your child or your house is messy Remember you will get criticized even if you don’t allow messy play when your child can’t read and write and do math Watch my You Tube video to know what exactly you need to do during messy play to help your child build the skills they need for READING WRITING MATH SCIENCE and SOCIAL SKILLS Find the video link in my stories
Are you exhausted with parenting?
Then you are probably HELICOPTER PARENTING Helicopter parenting is where you are constantly instructing, controlling and monitoring your child’s life so that he/she succeeds. At the end of the day – you are tired and your child is irritated Just switch to PANDA PARENTING It makes your child successful without stress Step 1 – Trust that your child wants to do the right things. If you are getting irritated with all the things your child is doing – you need to start parenting with neuroscience Step 2 – Respect your child Don’t force them to eat. Don’t force them to do the things you want them to do. If you are struggling with that – start parenting with neuroscience Step 3 – Give your child Independence Give them the freedom to decide what they want to play and how If you are worried that freedom will cause indiscipline – start parenting with neuroscience Step 4 – Collaboration Get on your child’s team and help them reach their goals If you doubt your child’s goals – start parenting with neuroscience Step 5 – Be kind When your child makes a mistake or fails – don’t blame and shame. Be kind and forgive. If you find you are shouting and hitting – start parenting with neuroscience Parenting is easy – when you start parenting with neuroscience If your child is between 0 to 7 years – and you want to start parenting with neuroscience – type PB and send me a DM. I will share the details of my PARENTING with NEUROSCIENCE course Make a new beginning today
​If you want your child to get good marks in the exam
Just answer these 5 questions for your child Why should I study this? What should I study in this? How should I study this? When should I study this? Where should I study this from? The answers are in the reel Your child is STUCK With poor marks because you have not answered these questions Get the answers NOW Type UNSTUCK And share this Change your child’s marks YOU CAN DO IT. #exam #examseason #exampreparation #motivation
​There are 5 main advantages of going to an INCLUSIVE SCHOOL
When your child has the opportunity to grow up with the specially abled. 1. They develop excellent COMMUNICATION SKILLS Because they need to communicate with children who experience the world very differently 2. They learn EMPATHY Being able to put themselves in another person’s shoes and look at the world from another person’s perspective is a huge advantage no matter what profession they choose 3. It teaches them good DECISION MAKING The best decisions are made by those who can look at situations from various angles. This is something they will do all the time in an inclusive environment 4. They develop high SELF-ESTEEM Because they have so many opportunities to be helpful 5. They learn DETERMINATION Watching their friends achieve despite their challenges helps them develop grit Being INCLUSIVE does not slow us down It gives us the wings we need to be SUCCESSFUL Teach your child to be INCLUSIVE – at school, at the playground and everywhere else. They will always gain from it. #inclusion #inclusivity #diversity #equity #parenting#paralympics #paralympics2024
Do not make your child OBEY YOU
It will destroy your child’s THINKING BRAIN Make your child LISTEN to you while building their brain by doing these 4 things 1. Convince your child Explain why you are asking them to do what you are saying Argue your point until they are convinced. This will build COMMUNICATION SKILLS 2. Debate Let your child explain their point of view Listen to their perspective as they try to convince you. This will build CRITICAL THINKING 3. Let them make some Decisions When your child has to decide - they will think carefully When you force your child to do something – they will rebel This will build CONFIDENCE 4. If your child makes a good point - Give in – Don’t insist on being obeyed just because you are the parent Give-in gracefully This teaches them COOPERATION These are skills that will help your child to become a LEADER If you teach your child obedience – your child will only become a FOLLOWER. Type LEADER and share this now so that no one forces your child to obey. Follow me for more.
Your child is not MISBEHAVING because they are BAD
They are misbehaving because you are not practicing AGE ALIGNED PARENTING Do you want to start with Age Aligned Parenting? Use my NEUROSCIENCE BASED AAAA formula FROM BIRTH TO 1 YEAR - your child needs the 1st A - ATTACHMENT • Hold your baby skin-to-skin as much as possible • Carry your baby in your lap as much as possible This will minimize CRYING FROM 1 TO 3 YEARS – your child needs the 2ND A – ATTENTION • Make eye contact and smile whenever you can • Follow your baby around • Play with your baby This will minimize TANTRUMS From 4 to 7 Years – your child needs the 3rd A – AFFECTION • Give your child lots of hugs and kisses • Say “I love you†• Be gentle, kind and loving when they don’t listen or can’t learn This will minimize their ANGER From 8 to 18 years – your child needs the 4th A – ACCEPTANCE • Do not compare or criticize • Look for your child’s strengths and appreciate them This will minimize their MOBILE USE Help your child to be GOOD by changing your parenting as your child grows. Type GOOD and share this now – so that those who call your child BAD - understand and change themselves. Follow me for more
My DMs are full of parents complaining about their child being DISTRACTED
This is the reason Do you want to know more about how you can be FOCUSED? Type YES And I will send you a video that will help you understand MINDFULNESS #mindfulparenting #focus #distraction #mobile
​5 TRICKS to make your baby LOVE VEGETABLES
1. Eat lots of vegetables when BREASTFEEDING The taste of food that you eat during breastfeeding is flavours your breastmilk Your baby loves your breastmilk and will fall in love with food that they tasted through breastmilk 2. Start with SWEET VEGETABLES like carrots and peas Babies are supposed to dislike foods that have a pungent or bitter taste. Most poisonous foods taste bitter or pungent and so disliking these tastes ensures that they do not accidentally eat something poisonous. Sweet foods are rich in calories and since babies need a lot of calories – their brain tells them to like sweet vegetables. 3. Offer small servings of vegetables every day Allow them to get familiar with the taste 4. Offer vegetables at snack time instead of meals Babies are very hungry at meal times and need food that fills them up quickly and gives them lots of instant energy to play. They get impatient with vegetables that are primarily fibre and water. Because they take too long to eat and give barely any energy. It is better to serve vegetables as snacks when they are not so hungry 5. Offer vegetables as finger foods Babies love anything that they can pick up and put in their mouth Offer vegetables as sticks that they can chew on. This will make them love vegetables. Be careful to avoid choking. Does your baby love vegetables? Let me know in comments.
If your child does not say SORRY
They are not STUBBORN They just need you to use the neuroscience based 3R formula. Use it and stop people from criticizing your child The 3R formula 1.The first R is RESPECTFUL Be RESPECTFUL when you explain their mistake Do not shout and scold If you shout – your child feels like you are attacking them That makes you the villain They become the victim. Since victims don’t say sorry. So your child does not say sorry They just start blaming you for shouting Speak softly and respectfully to your child. When they are calm and safe – they will see their mistake and find a way to fix it 2. The 2nd R is REPAIR Allow REPAIR As soon as your child says sorry - immediately forgive and forget If your child thinks you will remember the mistake and keep poking them about it later Why will they say sorry? 3. The third R is RELATIONSHIP Build your RELATIONSHIP with your child When you make a mistake say sorry If you say sorry – you get back sorry. Type 3R and do this now Transform your child and stop people from criticizing them and calling them STUBBORN and ARROGANT. This is parenting with neuroscience It can change the way people talk about you and your child Follow me to learn more #sorry #parenting #stubborn #badchild
Your baby’s brain grows rapidly in the first 7 years of life
During these years you have the power to make your child’s brain TERRIFIC Start today with my – 5T formula for building a TERRIFIC BRAIN for your BABY The first T is TOUCH Hold your baby close and give your baby lots of skin-to-skin contact This is called Kangaroo care and helps to grow your baby’s brain and body The 2nd T is TASTE Eat a variety of foods while you are breastfeeding The taste of everything you eat is passed down through breastmilk to your baby Eat healthy and your baby will acquire healthy eating habits The 3rd T is TUMMY TIME Put your baby down on their tummy at certain times of the day. This builds your baby’s neck muscles and helps in learning as your baby starts turning their head to look around. Make sure you follow safety precautions The 4th T is TOTE (CARRY) Tote or carry your baby around in your arms or in a baby carrier as much as possible Avoid prams and strollers Movement stimulates brain growth The 5th T is TRACK Move objects slowly in your baby’s line of vision and teach them how to track objects with their eyes. As your baby grows older, show them how to track people and other faster moving objects. 0 TO 7 YEARS IS THE TIME FOR RAPID BRAIN GROWTH And there is so much you can do to help your baby’s brain grow and become terrific. Do you want to learn all that you can do? Then type YES in comments and I will send you the details of my PARENTING with NEUROSCIENCE course for the parents of 0- to 7-year-olds. Make sure you follow me – otherwise my message will not reach you. |
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