How can I build my child's confidence?
This is one of the most common questions parents ask me. Confidence comes from within And what us within can be built by doing the 5 things mentioned in this reel. Type confidence and start doing these things today. Share this And follow me for more #parenting #confidence #gratitude
Are you always punishing and scolding your child for being naughty?
Are you trying to make them obedient and quiet? Donât do that. Behind the naughty behavior is a very intelligent mind Being naughty means that your child has these 3 traits Trait 1 â Curiosity Trait 2 â Courage Trait 3 â Creativity NURTURE these traits in your NAUGHTY child and they will SHINE in whatever they do. How to NURTURE your NAUGHTY CHILD? 1. PLAY Give them lots of time for free play, especially outdoors. This will give your child lots of opportunities to use their energy. It will also satisfy their desire to take risks in a safe environment. 2. CHORES Involve them in daily chores and encourage them to discover innovative ways to get the work done. This will give them a chance to use their intelligence for creative problem solving. 3. TALK Listen to your childâs ideas and ambitions. When you know what they want to do, you will be able to suggest safe ways to achieve what they want at a convenient time. This will slowly help them to learn how to make good decisions. 4. INVOLVE Involve your child when you make decisions about family rules or family outings. When you value your childâs input, it will satisfy their need for independence. 5. PLAN Plan things that are exciting for your child to do When life is boring for your child, they have to do something to make it exciting. 6. APPRECIATE Do not scold or punish your child. Also do not label your child naughty and keep complaining about them. Try to see the positive trait that is trying to express itself through the behavior and appreciate it. When your child feels loved, they will listen to you. A naughty child may feel like an inconvenience, but it is important to view their behavior as a glimpse into their potential. If you have a naughty child type WOW and start appreciating them now. Share this so that others recognize your childâs potential and stop criticising them Follow me for more #parenting #naughtychild #discipline #badbehavviour.
When your child has exams
When there is too much to study and too little time Do you give your child lots of tea / coffee to focus and study fast? Most of us do. We think that driving away sleep with coffee / tea / other drinks which have caffeine is the best thing to do during exams. But unfortunately, that is a wrong belief. This is what happens when a child drinks tea / coffee while studying â 1. When your child uses their brain to study for long periods â their brain gets filled with a chemical which makes them sleepy. 2. Sleep is essential at this point. Because it is during sleep that the information that your childâs brain has taken in while studying - turns into long term memories 3. When you give your child tea/ coffee / other drinks â the caffeine in the drink displaces the sleep chemical and wakes your child up. And your child continues to study. 4. Their brain takes in more information â but they donât learn well because the caffeine in the drink makes them anxious and restless. 5. In addition, all the information that is going in stays in the short-term memory. Because of the lack of sleep the information does not get a permanent spot in the brain. 6. After a while your child feels sleepy again and you give them another cup of tea / coffee and the whole cycle repeats itself. When your child studies like this â A: They learn less because of anxiety. B: They forget more because of lack of sleep. Then how can they do well in their exams? Avoid tea and coffee during the exams. Save this and show it to your child when they ask for tea/coffee Share this with everyone who drinks lots of tea and coffee to stay awake and focused. #parenting #learning #exams #tea #coffee #sleep
Exams are here
Are you struggling to make your child Remember what they need for exams? Then these 3 tips are for you 1. Replace FEAR with FUN If you put the fear of exams in your child they will forget what they learn Make learning fun and they will Remember what they learn 2. Give INFORMATION depending on the childâs INTEREST If your child is interested in cars teach addition by adding cars and so on Interest ensures focus 3. LINK LEARNING to LIFE Connect what your child is learning to what they do every day in life. Talk about examples in the park or kitchen to explain things Doing this helps them to remember things more easily and for longer Don't focus on marks Focus on helping your child LOVE LEARNING That is the secret to SUCCESS Type LEARNING and change your approach today Share this so that people stop Focusing on MARKS and stop scolding your child Follow me for more #parenting #exams #marks #learning #school
Do you SHOUT at your child and HIT them to push them towards SUCCESS?
Do you know that instead of success â you are arranging for the FAILURE? Yes When you shout and hit â you DESTROY your childâs BRAIN. And you can see it. Does your child struggle to learn? Shouting and hitting affects the area of the brain required for memory. Does your child get angry easily? Shouting and hitting shut down the thinking brain. Does your child have low confidence? Shouting and hitting affect the self-esteem area of the brain. If you are seeing all this in your child â STOP SHOUTING and HITTING But how? Use NEUROSCIENCE to TEACH your child effectively. Use NEUROSCIENCE to make DISCIPLINE easy. Use NEUROSCIENCE to get your child to stop using the MOBILE and eating JUNK FOOD. NEUROSCIENCE makes parenting EASY and EFFECTIVE When you use NEUROSCIENCE, you donât have to shout and hit. Type PB if you want details of my Parenting with Neuroscience course. Share this now so that those who judge you for NOT HITTING and SHOUTING see this and understand why you donât hit. Follow me for more. #parenting #discipline #punishment #gentleparenting#parentingcourse
âParenting should be full of LOVE and HAPPINESS
But many parents only experience WORRY and FRUSTRATION The reason? They are not PARENTING with NEUROSCIENCE Parenting is BRAIN BUILDING And trying to build the brain without understanding NEUROSCIENCE is what creates all the problems in parenting. If you are gripped with WORRY Is my child okay? ANGER Why is my child not doing what I say? OVERTHINKING Am I doing the right thing for my child? Then start PARENTING with NEUROSCIENCE Type PB If you want details of my PARENTING with NEUROSCIENCE course called THE PARENTING BLUEPRINT for the parents of 0 to 7 year olds. This is a recorded 5 module course with lifetime access that will help you with every aspect of parenting in the first 7 years. It also comes with support from me over periodic live Q and A sessions and through a FB community Join the course for a joyful parenting experience #parenting #parentingexpert
Are you feeling helpless as a parent?
Is your child stubborn, shy, or lazy sensitive or distracted? Have you asked them to change and failed? Are you fed up? And are you now just complaining about their behavior? Do they hear you call them lazy, shy and arrogant when you describe them to others? Do you know that by using these negative words about your childâs behavior, you are making your child more shy, more lazy and more arrogant? Stop now. Reframe the behavior in your mind and use positive words to describe your child. That will make you feel POWERFUL instead of helpless. And also change your childâs behavior Advantages of using positive words â 1. Positive words help you see challenging behaviors without anger and frustration. 2. Positive words increase your childâs self-esteem and build a growth mindset. 3. Positive words strengthen your bond with your child and help you communicate better with your child. 4. Positive words create a problem-solving atmosphere. 5. Positive words build emotional intelligence. Do you need a list of positive words to add to your parenting vocabulary? Type POSITIVE and I will send you a list. Share this so that people who use negative words to motivate your child see it and change what they say. Follow me for more. #parenting #badbehavior #discipline#scolding
Allergies are terrible
They can cause illness They can also be life threatening Unfortunately the number of children suffering from Allergies is increasing Does your child suffer from allergy? Then you should know these 3 things. You should also know these things if you want to prevent your child from developing allergies 1. If your child is allergic to something consult with a doctor, detect what is causing the allergy And avoid the allergen. Also follow the medication prescribed Don't take allergy lightly. It can be life threatening 2. To prevent allergies or to reduce the intensity and frequency of allergic episodes focus on the food your child eats. Avoid packaged and processed food. Colours and preservatives make allergies worse. Eat fresh food cooked at home. 3. To help your child build their immune system the right way encourage outdoor play. Allow your child to get muddy and dirty when they play. Exposure to bacteria builds the immune system the right way. Do you want more tips on how to prevent allergies? Type ALLERGY And I will send you 10 more tips. Share this with a parent who is not doing these things and suffering Follow me for more #parenting #immunity #allergy
Is it a struggle to get your child to sleep every night?
Then you need these 5 tips 1. Focus on exercise. Outdoor play for at least 2 hours that makes your child sweat is a must 2. No screens All devices must be turned off 2 hours before bedtime 3. Fixed time Your child must go to sleep at the same time every day 4. Listen Let your child offload their worries and stories before they sleep so that they can sleep peacefully 5. Don't scold Scolding causes stress and does not allow your child restful sleep Are you doing these? Sleep is essential for Good learning Good behavior Good immunity Good growth Type SLEEP and start with all this today Share this with everyone who sleeps late every day Follow me for more
Are you worried about your childâs arrogance?
Do you worry that instead of saying sorry when they make a mistake, they argue and answer back? Then here is what you need to do. Change yourself with this 5 A formula. When you Change your child will Change too The first A is ADMIT When you make a mistake admit it. Don't insist that you are right The second A is APOLOGISE Say sorry with sincerity and humility When you are wrong. The third A is ALLOW Create an open environment where your child is allowed to point out your mistakes The fourth A is ANALYSE Spend time analysing what caused you to make the mistake. If possible do this in discussion with your child and with their inputs The fifth A is AVOID In the future - plan to avoid the mistake. If possible share your plan with your child. Children learn whether to react to their mistakes or respond to them from us. When they react they keep making the same mistake. When they respond they learn how to change. Type 5 A and start showing your child how to RESPOND and not REACT. Share this with those who call your child arrogant so that they understand how they are triggering your childâs arrogance and stop criticising your child. Follow me For more #parenting #mistakes #arrogant #forgiveness #discipline |
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